To ask what the the crisis team will do?

[Notesonaconditionalform]

I'm just nervous/scared if most things anyway it's easier if I know what they'll come here and do
im having a shot time with mental health atm last night a stranger called the ambulance because I must have looked crazy bc I was outside I was scared to go into my house because I couldn't cope really and they called the crisis team who just called me back now and wanted to come to my house I said no because I can't even come to my house atm so they're going to call later and try to come then
what will they do or say? Do I have to have them come here can I see them sonewheee else?

Hi OP, sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. Please try not to panic about the crisis team, is this your first interaction with them?

Essentially, they'll want to assess your mental state in order to determine what treatment routes/next steps are best for you.

They may take a brief developmental/life history to flag any trauma or risk factors, they'll ask about what supports etc you have in place and about any medications that you're on. They'll ask about what life has been like for you recently and how you're feeling.

Usually this is fed back to the medical team - they may offer you short term medications, inpatient treatment or have the home treatment team help manage you at home.

None of these are things to worry about although I understand how overwhelmed and anxious you must feel.

I'm glad that you're getting some level of support from mental health services.

I have fairly extensive experience with dealing with them and if you'd like to talk privately for a handhold my inbox is open.

I'm really sorry you are going through such a difficult team.

The crisis team's job is essentially triage - determining what might be going on and the appropriate next steps.

You will have to see them in person to let them do their job. I'm not entirely clear from your post why you can't meet them at your home but if you explain they will probably be able to meet you somewhere else such as A&E.

They are professionals used to dealing with chaotic situations. Unfortunately they are under unbelievable pressure these days which limits their flexibility.

There are a number of links to sources of support in the meantime here.

I've been there. It sucks. It will get better, please keep going.

Oh, just to add, you can request they see you somewhere else though it's up to them as to whether they will. I have frequently been seen and assessed at my mothers over the years to avoid my children witnessing me when I've been really unwell.

I have messed up a lot l didn't answer the call the second time I was scared the woman yesterday in the phone was really mean the one this morning was nice though but I don't even know what to tell them and then I've had to have my children now too their dad is refusing to help me and I'm scared now the crisis person will report me to social services if I'm struggling this much
I'm trying my very best to act normal for the kids and they are ok though and going to their dads tomorrow

@Notesonaconditionalform they may well make a referral to gateway because you have children but that doesn't mean they'll see any need for further involvement. They'll simply want to make sure you and the children have adequate family support as you're unwell. If you have close family or a good friend circle who helps you with the children, or their dad for example then they may well just close the referral. Please don't let that put you off seeking help. If anything, being proactive and engaging with support is more likely to be seen as a protective factor re your children. I hope you're okay x

Thank you that's helpful to know.
I have called their dad and properly explained and he's picked the kids up- I called crisis back and they are coming at 8

I'm so glad you felt able to reach out to crisis team again... hopefully it's the beginning of the journey to feeling well again. virtual hugs

Just updating incase anyone searches for a similar thread if they're also worried.
They were so kind and helpful, I know that isn't always the case so I was lucky with that. They took me to a house were I can stay a couple of days to try and get some sleep and calm down

@Notesonaconditionalform thank you so much for updating. I'm glad your experience was as positive as it could be under the circumstances. Hopefully this is the first step towards feeling better x

Just realised how repetitive I sounded there 🤦🏻‍♀️ too early in the morning for me 🤣🙈