Hi, just looking for a bit of advice really. So been split up from the ex for about 4 years now. Moved on have a new partner and a daughter who is nearly 1. Seen the ex and his mum separately on a few occasions never spoke to the ex occasionally spoke to his mum.
Last week the ex seen my partner and baby and mouthed off saying I owed his mum money barring in mind nothing has been said for like 4 years.. I came off social media years ago and cut all contact with the ex and anyone associated with him years ago.. so I got a family member to message him basically asking if he was for real mouthing off to my partner when my baby was there and basically told him to piss off. The majority of the money owed was through him lending on the basis of me paying it back which I will absolutely not be paying however there is money owed by me to his mum. During the relationship he basically rinsed me of everything and battered me and treat me like shit wrecked multiple phones and belongings all at my expense the response I received from him was quite threatening. Saying things will get nasty if I don’t pay it. What should I do? I really don’t want to pay a penny but I will do begrudgingly if I have to. Part of me thinks this is him thinking he has the control and can’t stand to see me happy.