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AIBU?

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To think he was manipulated?

3 replies

keojam80 · 20/06/2023 22:39

My son and I both work in the same work place.
There has been a member of our office charged for inflicting severe injuries to his newborn baby.
He is back in the office after some time off on sick leave.
Word has spread around the office about the incident as his partner used to be a member of our team. She has left him, and staying with her mother with their children.

My son is friends with the woman but hasn't been spreading gossip or talking about it at all at work. In fact, our team has been pretty good in just getting on with things and not saying anything more about it.
He came back from sick leave and came and found my son and said to him that he is innocent and it was an accident. My son said he didn't wish to discuss it.
He then made a dramatic scene with tears and said that he was innocent.
I found out later that he went around the office doing this to several people.
We have reported it but not heard anything back yet.
He has been charged but I have no idea what that means in terms of him attending court or going to prison any time soon.

OP posts:
GottaGirlcrush · 20/06/2023 22:41

Sorry who was manipulated?? What's your aibu here?

Whenwillitallmakesense · 20/06/2023 22:51

He made a scene by crying and you reported him for...? Manipulating your son? You'll have to explain that one further. Did the man's crying scene somehow convince your son of his innocence and you disagree with that opinion?

I'm not sure of the rationale of coming on MN to gossip about such serious and devastating crime, allegations and charges, where the mum has gone, the fact that you all work together. It's all very gossip mongering, not to say outing.
I'm not sure what the post is about?

This man might be a horrendous, abusing little cunt. He might be telling the truth. He's not been found guilty in a court of law...yet or may never will.

If there are general concerns about having him in the workplace, then ask for a meeting with managers or HR. Or your son could ask his friend what's happening regarding court dates etc.

Sorry, I feel like I'm rambling shit but really not sure what you want from us?

GottaGirlcrush · 21/06/2023 15:21

Op??

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