My mother hasn't spoken to my uncle in a very long time. They dislike each other due to various things that transpired when my grandfather died. My mother many years ago told me I had to choose between her and my uncle (I was 18) and of course I chose my mum.
Now being a mother myself I feel that was a really unfair thing to do as my uncle has never done anything wrong to me, infact he was a wonderful uncle very caring and considorate, he had no kids of his own and treated me like a daughter.
Fast forward 6 months ago I seen him on Facebook and I decided to add him. I told my mum we were now Facebook friends and she didn't she didn't want to know anything about him.
We have very much rekindled our relationship. He has met my husband and my children, we speak a few times a week and we have visited a few times.I don't have a dad and I feel a comfort around him. He is a pleasure to be around.
My mum has since found out we have been speaking outside of Facebook she said I lied to her and various other torents of abuse. I said I had not because she specifically told me she didn't want to know anything.
She currently isn't speaking to me.
Am I in the wrong here? I have a feeling she will try and make me choose again