I follow my local animal charity on social media and donate occasionally when I see them in town, or when they have an appeal for a specific animal. The charity is run by a woman who posts on social media daily with pictures of her feeding the rescued animals, new intakes, and family photos of her kids with the animals. A few months ago, she posted a photo of an animal I’ve been looking for for ages. It’s a bit unusual, but I’ve got several already and confident I’d be able to take on more. I messaged her and she read the message immediately and asked me to do a video of the area id keep the animal in. I sent the video immediately and she watched it, but didn’t respond.
After a couple of weeks, I messaged again and explained I wasn’t trying to push her, but was keen to adopt and was the animal still available. Again, she read the message and didn’t respond. A month later, she posted a picture of the animal in a larger area, saying how it’d had no interest and was now so big they’d had to spend £* building a new home and they’d love donations towards it. The charity’s bank details were on the post, this is something she does regularly posting about a new rescue needing vets bills covered or new equipment for new animals coming in. I commented on her post saying how nice it was to see the animal, and that I’d message her about adopting. I then messaged her privately again saying how keen I was to adopt it, explaining my experience and knowledge of the breed and how I had the space and time to take it. Again, she read the message and ignored, and then deleted my comment from the post.
I'm so annoyed, I’ve donated to this charity in the past. I’ve always thought what a lovely person she is and how lucky her children are to grow up surrounded by animals, knowing they’re literally saving these animals lives. Now I’m thinking it’s a scam, she isn’t really rehoming them and is just using them as a sob story to get people to pay for animals she’s planning to keep. Now I don’t know what to do, I’m guessing I should just stop following, stop supporting her but I’m so angry