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to think it's weird he deletes WhatsApp messages from his ex?

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GeeBee27 · 15/06/2023 22:16

Just that really. DH mentioned he'd swapped some whatsapp messages with his ex.

Being ridiculously insecure looked at the phone to assure myself messages weren't dodgy.

They ain't there.

But he told me he sent them so I should assume it's not something bad? Maybe he deletes a lot of messages, idk. I don't normally look at his messages and feel quite guilty about doing it now.

Same time...bit of a twinge. Typing this though I think IABU. Aren't I.

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GeeBee27 · 16/06/2023 06:44

AngelAurora · 16/06/2023 03:31

You are out of order reading his personal messages, do you not trust him? This is your issue to deal with, I would dump anyone who breached my trust and went behind my back snooping, you need to move past this before it ruins your relationship.

Ok, thanks for the perspective. I would say that I trust him but clearly some bit of me has doubts. I know it was wrong to look at his messages. If he looked at my messages though, there wouldn't be anything to be bothered about or anything from any exes, and not because I deleted any. But I get that what I've done is a breach of trust and I suppose asking MN is another...

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