Hi all, ongoing issues with neighbour being overly intrusive and just general CF, trying to have as little to do with them as possible (you may remember previous threads telling me off for wanting to not be blocked in on my drive, lecturing me on not being in to accept their parcels and blocking the shared access with a cat poop filled planter).
Was texted today to ask if they could come into my back garden to cut back their hedges, I politely declined and explained I have a gardener already scheduled in to do this (trained tree surgeon/arboriculturalist which neighbour knows as they cornered him last time he was here and tried to make him make changes to my garden on their say so!) NB they are end of terrace, so do not have rights to shared access
Text back from neighbour saying bushes are their responsbility and so would prefer to do it... Am I within my rights to say no?
I know it sounds petty and like I'm declining free garden help, but I really want nothing to do with neighbour and do not want to be indebted in anyway - they are completely crazy and I don't want to become involved/ wander into my garden and find them there.
AIBU - Let neighbour have access to deal with overhanging bushes
AINBU - Stand firm and let the gardener do it