To have coffee

[housinghero]

Talk some sense into me . me And my husband of 24 years have a very happy marriage . We are best friends but we have had a bit of a shit 12 months. 2 job
losses and a family bereavement.
we have a local pub that we go into now and then.
a few months ago I had a message from a man that goes into this pub. I don’t know him- seen him there , may have smiled hello but no more .
He sent me a message via Facebook (we are not friends . Saying ‘when can I see you again - I like it when I see you’
I told him to get lost
I have exchanged a couple of innocent messages due to a voluntary organisation his wife (yes he is married ) runs but nothing of substance
ww went to the pub on sat and were sat in the garden with friends.
I felt like I was being watched and turned to where my ‘sixth’ sense was telling me to look and it was him. I messaged him to tell him to stop watching me .
he is a pretty respectable guy and I do find him attractive
I feel a bit confused by it .
I almost want to meet him and
ask him what he is up to!!
tell me to get some sense!!

What did your husband say about all this?

Of yes of course he said go and £uck him if you want to darling …
what do you actually think he said

i will say it again- thank you to those of you that cleared my mind from the menopausal mess that death and financial worries produces
and the rest of you can go onto another post and be as judgmental as you want ….

Wow OP, that guy is really missing out that you're not meeting him for coffee. You're husband must be thanking his lucky stars that he has you.

Don't be blaming menopause for wanting to cheat on your husband. There are many women including myself that wouldn't be distracted by a married creep. I'm not that desperate that a married creep would flatter me.