My dd is 8 and has a peanut allergy, she has never had an anaphylaxis but had bad reaction when fed peanut butter as a baby (hives + vomiting), skin prick when she was 5 showed clear reaction at test site plus swelling of face/lips following the prick so was given an epipen. I’ve seen her react to peanuts in the same room with hives on her face so assume allergy is airborne although again never had anaphylaxis.
we have carried these epipens around for years and thankfully never used them but like most kids with severe allergies she has had her life restricted because of the allergy/epipens. She can’t go to sleepovers or even play at friends houses unless parents are happy with the risk and possible need to administer epipen (most are not and she never gets invited anywhere despite having lots of friends in school). She hates carrying the epipens because she has asd related social anxiety and she doesn’t like having attention drawn to her, if anyone asks her about them she gets upset.
Because of the anxiety I am fairly certain that’s if she was having a severe reaction/anaphylaxis she would be more likely to hide in a corner somewhere than ask another adult for help if I wasn’t there, so even when there is a system in place to deal with allergies/epipens in holiday clubs etc I’m not really 100% comfortable leaving her. Building her confidence etc is a continuous work in progress and she is improving but not enough for me to feel that she would ask for help if needed.
I’m in Scotland so Palforzia isn’t available through NHS, Aibu to consider paying for it at around £19000? I would have to pay through a payment plan and even then would probably involve taking out loans and credit cards to make the payments, financially crippling me for years to come. Can anyone who’s child has had this treatment tell me if it’s worth it?