I've posted before about a friend before and loads of you said she is taking the p.
So my mate is godmother to my youngest, even though she didn't come to the christening (but that's not for here). She asked me a few weeks ago if I'd have her 2 over night so she could go out for her birthday. I said yes, it was enough notice and my kids have been asking. The night before I text her asking what the plan was because I couldn't have them straight after school but she can BRING them to mine around 5/6. She texts back 6.30am next day and says she's really ill with a tummy bug and she can't BRING them but will see if she can get someone to drop them off. I didn't hear from her again ALL day and assumed because she wasn't going out, they weren't coming. So I've cooked dinner for the kids and as I'm serving it up, my door knocks and it's my mates neighbour with her kids. She hands my their bag and says their mum said she'll get them at 11am the next day. Still nothing, no phone or text call to say neighbours coming. AND they hadnt had dinner. So I text her, saying she should of told me. Then she says oh well she'll come get them through if I weren't ready. I said it's fine, kids are happy. She's all like I don't wanna piss you off. Erm too late for that lovey. She then tells me that her eldest has never slept over at a friends. Well I was up till 2.30am because she couldn't sleep (she is generally an awkward child who is very dramatic) and the woken up at 7am by the youngest who had diarrhoea.
The reason I think I'm more annoyed is that a couple of weeks ago I was really really ill and I'm a single parent so still had to take my kids to school. Then she calls me the day after I told her I was sick, asking me to take her kids to school because her hip was playing up (she has arthritis and a partner). But was fine to watch the neighbours dog all day. AIBU to just cut ties and leave her to it because I can't take it anymore.