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Extremely anxious about this- can’t sleep

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clearpurple · 08/06/2023 00:39

I’ve been unwell for a few months with some awful symptoms. I feel like I’ve never been taken seriously by the doctor and I’ve felt a bit fobbed off. I asked to be referred to a specialist or at least have my symptoms investigated but was told no it’s not necessary because my young age means it will not be anything serious. I spoke to a different practitioner (not NHS) who recommended a scan and was baffled as to why I hadn’t had one already with my symptoms.

so I booked it privately and payed a fortune for it. But now it’s hit me that it’s happening and I’m suddenly terrified. What if I get bad news or it turns out to be something serious? I know it’s extremely unlikely to be anything serious because I’m young, and if it is anything it will be easy to fix and not serious, but I’ve got a niggling feeling of anxiety in case it turns out to be something serious.

I should add, I’m not at all an anxious person and don’t usually worry about my health. I wasn’t worrying about any of this until tonight and I suddenly can’t shake it off

im also scared of not getting any answers and being no further forward. In my perfect ideal world the scan will show an answer for my symptoms and it will be something extremely simple and easy to fix.

I know I sound melodramatic because chances are it won’t be anything serious, but I suddenly feel so overwhelmed and frightened by it all. It’s been the worst few months and I’m suddenly so scared about it all

has anyone ever been in a similar position and have any advice? TIA x

OP posts:
Cherchezlafemme77 · 08/06/2023 00:42

Bless you, you are not alone; health anxiety is very common, and has worsened for many in the last few years. I hope you get some answers. What are your symptoms?

thaegumathteth · 08/06/2023 01:07

Well - the scan will hopefully help in that it'll rule anything nasty out. What are your symptoms? Has your GP offered symptom management?

SD1978 · 08/06/2023 02:37

Do the symptoms point to something specific as per the private practitioner? If it isn't this- what's your next plan, if this is ok and doesn't show what you think? Will that reassure you, or will it make you more concerned? I hope you get some kind of resolution from your scan.

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