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AIBU?

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80skid · 07/06/2023 17:12

AIBU to think it's so sad that people can be so closed minded? Ive come across a few examples recently where people are really judgemental of those who they disagree with, to bizarre extents. Think politics, think the coronation, brexit and so forth. I know these are important topics and rightly so, but refusing to speak to someone because they hold a different belief to you?
Dismissing everything else about that person's life, experience and expertise because they voted for brexit?
Refusing to consider buying a nice house in a nice area because the neighbour had bunting up for the coronation? Totally dismissing everything about a person because they celebrated something you didn't?
I find this so strange, because the people I am talking about would consider themselves very liberal where sexuality and religion are concerned, but have a barbecue when your nation's monarch is crowned and suddenly you're branded a Mail Reading Flag Shagger and healthy discussion or debate is off the cards. It makes me sad that people can be so closed minded and miss out on all of the positive things which people you disagree with have to offer.

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80skid · 08/06/2023 23:20

Clearly just me then. I love people. I love to know what makes them tick. If offered an evening in the pub with President Putin, Greta Thunberg or a Spice Girl, I'd love to hear about their lives and understand their experiences, without any feeling I need to agree with them whatsoever.

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Ponoka7 · 08/06/2023 23:26

Some people don't have positive things to offer. There's people who I don't want to know. I moved from an area that was crime ridden and the people anti education etc, even though in a way it didn't affect me. You should be picking friends carefully and not unconditionally. We all have the right to chose who we speak to.

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