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polon · 07/06/2023 12:24

Been seeing ExDP again since last year, not exclusively.

He has a long history of asking lots of questions about my sexual past and accusing me of sleeping with people when I haven't.

Last night he asked for a nude photo and I sent it. All fine.

Today, randomly and out of the blue he then accused me of editing it to make my body look more curvy (I didn't) and said I had clearly sent it to other men. And said I'm making such an effort to impress other men.

I denied the accusations but he carried on. I was sleeping with a man years ago now who turns out to not be a very nice person, he often gets brought up. He said today that he finds it "cringe" and that I defend sleeping him and that I should admit to regretting it. I didn't know the bad things about him at the time.

I called him crazy and said that he is relentless with this. He said he's not, that he can be a "little psycho" but he's just protective and that's the way he is. He says he doesn't tell me what to do or what to wear or ever shout at me.

He said: "sensitive polon strikes again".

I've ended things. He thinks I've overreacted.

Have I?

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DontBePassiveAggresive · 07/06/2023 13:59

Last night he asked for a nude photo and I sent it. All fine.

It wasnt all fine though was it.

AgathaX · 07/06/2023 14:15

Glad you've ended it. You don't need that kind of bullshit in your life.

Maybe reconsider sending nudes though. Putting yourself at risk there somewhat.

HorribleNecktie · 07/06/2023 14:22

Why are you boomeranging back to this dickhead?

Also don’t send nudes- as soon as you do, that image is in the control of the man who you’ve sent it to. Your ex sounds like a piece of shit, now he’s got a picture he can hold over you.

polon · 07/06/2023 17:56

I don't know why I find it so hard to leave. It's been four years on and off.

Every reason is so stereotypical and pathetic.

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PinedApple · 07/06/2023 18:11

You're not pathetic, and you've definitely made the right call ending it with this guy. He sounds horrible, controlling and abusive. Maybe keep a message or something to refer back to this moment in case you ever feel like going back to him again. You deserve better and there are better men out there, I promise you!!

Sandysandra · 26/09/2023 13:47

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