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AIBU that making craft shit for school at home is pointless?

114 replies

purplepencilcase · 04/06/2023 14:10

Can someone explain why spending almost a whole day on making a Viking Longboat for Year 3 homework is a good use of time?

I honestly can't believe it's enhancing education in ways that other activities couldn't do?

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Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 14:51

Does it matter if parents help or not. In the 7 years of my daughters primary school you had the children who built stuff by themselves, the children who had help and the models that were clearly built by an adult when the child gave up interest.
The teachers could tell the difference, so could the children, so could the parents...but no one cared. It was all fun.
My daughter was of the "gave up interest" group but I loved making models.
One of mine was displayed in the classroom all term. All the children knew I made it because the teacher told them and I gave a brief Show and Tell about it. It was known as "Xs Mum's Model of .....".

GaspingGekko · 04/06/2023 14:51

GaspingGekko · 04/06/2023 14:49

@Needmorelego My interest came from having very strong maths skills and an interest in physics and the area of engineering I went into.
In my various jobs I've analysed data, produced statistics, created computer simulations, worked on test rigs - mainly computer based.

Posted too soon. I appreciate that thwre are children who will absolutely love many aspects of these projects, and they can be fun for some, I'm just not convinced that sticking loo rolls together are really the thing that are going to spark a passion or assist the skills that you seem to think it will.

Zoologydragon · 04/06/2023 14:54

I don't think it's too much of an issue once they get a tiny bit older. The projects my y1 dd5 has to complete on the other hand are pointless! In the 2nd term of reception: build a habitat. Not one child's was made by the actual child.

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 14:54

@GaspingGekko I guess you have never met any toy designers - a big part of having an interest in a career like that is building toys out of cardboard as a kid.

nahwhale · 04/06/2023 14:56

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 14:28

Design skills
Figuring out the best materials to use skills
Building skills

The future designers, engineers and builders of future products have got to learn their skills somehow. This is how they start.

What by getting their parents to do it? This sort of thing is fine until the parents get involved

nahwhale · 04/06/2023 14:57

daffodilandtulip · 04/06/2023 14:35

Ofsted. I'm a childminder and got marked down because the children (under 3) don't do enough home learning.

That's utterly ridiculous. Why is that your responsibility?

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 04/06/2023 14:58

SweetSakura · 04/06/2023 14:26

Yanbu. I realised most of the time the parents must have done most of the making. So I don't make mine do these projects.
Crap for them to try compare what they can make with something mainly made by someone 4x their age

Indeed. When DS1(now 18) was in Reception class, the homework was to make a model 'space rocket'.

He managed to cover a Pringle tube in tinfoil, put some stickers on it and tape a plastic ice-cream cone thing to the top. He was ever so pleased with himself.

Until he got to school and saw all the elaborate rockets clearly made by the competitive parents, that was. I've never forgotten seeing his little face crumple, and I never encouraged him to bother with these types of homework again..

Teabab · 04/06/2023 14:58

We used to do all of this stuff at school in school time and with school resources, sadly there isn't the time or the money now so it gets sent to be done at home. Art and making stuff in general is very beneficial for children, the real crime is that it is undervalued in the curriculum.

Whowhatwherewhenwhy1 · 04/06/2023 14:58

Pointless because 9/10 times most of the making has been done by a parent and can easily be spotted when the little darlings bring them back to school. Waste of time and not really a learning experience and just a bloody annoyance to already overstretched parents. My daughters school had the sense to make them in school.

TeaandHobnobs · 04/06/2023 14:58

Ugh, we had so many weekend craft homeworks when DS was in Y3/Y4 - drove us mental!
Thankfully they seemed to have stopped the practice now DD is in this part of the school… there’s an optional “grid” of activities to be completed over the half term, but we don’t bother - it’s hard enough getting her to do the actual homework 😬

Mydusa · 04/06/2023 14:58

DD did a PowerPoint for a project once and got marked down for it not being creative enough. We did papier mache etc after that, less actual work required.

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 15:00

@nahwhale so parents shouldn't help their children with maths, reading or sporting skills either? Just leave everything for the children to do by themselves?
If a parent says they never help their child with reading they get shot down in flames.
But god forbid they help with some crafting.

KnickerlessParsons · 04/06/2023 15:02

DH DD once made a brilliant WWI trench. Took him them bloody ages.

iatealltheminieggs · 04/06/2023 15:02

Currently helping my 7 year old make a bus so I feel your pain.

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 15:02

@Mydusa how old was your daughter when she was "marked down" though?
Making a viking ship in Year 3 isn't the type of thing that would be "marked" or given a grade?

notsurewherenotsurewhy · 04/06/2023 15:04

Yabu, as homework goes I prefer this sort. We spend as little or as much time as we fancy / other plans permit. My DC always loved a bit of junk modelling whether in the classroom, set as homework, or spontaneously raiding the recycling at home. I'm not aware of it ever feeling competitive at school - suspect in our school there are low levels of parental over-involvement - as far as I can tell that's a very middle class mumsnet thing.

I'm a lone parent of two kids, and have a full time job. Have always been much happier to make time and fend off a toddler for this stuff rather than practising bloody spellings. Much easier to engage both the dyspraxic sensitive kid, and the one who generally finds everything easy, in Viking boats than worksheets.

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 15:06

@iatealltheminieggs bus is easy. Empty cornflake box. Painted red (or the colour of your local buses). Draw window and door shapes on In each window either draw a person or cut out faces from an old magazine and stick them on. Cut out black cardboard circles for wheels and stick them on.
Done.

EasyLifer · 04/06/2023 15:10

Luckily these days are long gone for me, but it's not just the making of the damn thing that's a pain in the arse, it's then got to be transported into school! Not so easy to carry a homemade volcano, or similar shite when the school run is 15 mins walk in all elements!

Sensibletrousers · 04/06/2023 15:11

I don’t mind craft homework as long as

a) I’m given plenty of notice
b) my child actually engages and doesn’t complain or wander off leaving me to do it

Sadly it’s rare both conditions are met!

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/06/2023 15:13

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 15:00

@nahwhale so parents shouldn't help their children with maths, reading or sporting skills either? Just leave everything for the children to do by themselves?
If a parent says they never help their child with reading they get shot down in flames.
But god forbid they help with some crafting.

There’s a big difference between “helping” and taking over completely the design and execution.

PaigeMatthews · 04/06/2023 15:16

iatealltheminieggs · 04/06/2023 15:02

Currently helping my 7 year old make a bus so I feel your pain.

Haha spent lunch time making a Gaudi inspired building with a year 8.

SweetSakura · 04/06/2023 15:17

MereDintofPandiculation · 04/06/2023 15:13

There’s a big difference between “helping” and taking over completely the design and execution.

Exactly.

Cutting the sellotape/buying materials/ being an extra pair of hands as they execute their designs etc...Fine.

Treating it as some opportunity to show off that you have a degree in art and design or whatever... Twatty. (And doesn't help your child anyway, they would learn a lot more if you let them take charge)

mastertomsmum · 04/06/2023 15:18

PuttingDownRoots · 04/06/2023 14:33

I'd love to say it gets better at Secondary school...

But DD had to make a castle in Yr7.

Yup same in Yr 7 here. There was also an egg thing, bunting, a mask and volcano (not functioning, just labelled like the mot and bailey castle). I recall with the castle that the instructions used some other word than labelled and we ended up doing it last minute

Needmorelego · 04/06/2023 15:22

@MereDintofPandiculation well parents don't have to do that. If they "take over" that's their choice.

deplorabelle · 04/06/2023 15:24

TheYearOfSmallThings · 04/06/2023 14:22

If all the Viking longships were set on fire after dark at the local pond and sent out across the water, it would be like a miniature Up Helly Aa, and who wouldn't like to see that?

I am so doing this when winter comes

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