Am I being to stubborn?

[Lisa235]

Me and my ex have got back together but when I was single I came off the pill and I don’t regret it.

Sex has now become a stand off as I’ve explained I don’t want to go back on the pill as I’ve been on it since I was 15 and I feel so much better for it. He won’t wear condoms as it doesn’t feel good so wants me to go back on the pill. He also asked what does he get out of it as there’s certain things in the bedroom I don’t feel comfortable with doing - so In his eyes he’s not getting anything he wants.

I was hoping we were going to try for a baby in the next year so I didn’t want to muck my body about. I’m now thinking about going back on the pill otherwise we’ll never have sex and our relationship will suffer.

I feel pretty crap and to know he’s not happy with our sex life has knocked my confidence. I wanted our relationship to start again but I just as shit as I did before because of this.

As long as he gets his end away he really doesnt care about your health or wellbeing. This is not a man you should have kids with.
Get rid and up your standards.

Do get rid of this guy - I get there was a very good reason why he became an ex.

Dont have a baby with him.

Find some one who respects and values you enough not to ask you to make yourself unwell due to their preferences.

Having a baby with a man who thinks like that, is an extremely stupid thing to do.

Ex’s are ex’s for a reason.
He sounds vile.
LTB

Surely you’re not going to have a baby with him?!

You did the right thing breaking up with him in the first place.

FFS sick of women's bars being so embarrassingly low. If we all stopped marrying and reproducing with these bottom feeding skidmarks their kind would die out for future generations.

Amen 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Do not have a baby with this man for gods sake!

I did not want to take hormones after our 3rd child. DH doesn't want a vasectomy. We use condoms. We both prefer sec without condoms but we respect each others choices and don't want to get pregnant.