I’ve been dating someone for around 2-3 months now. I find them so attractive physically, they have a great personality, so kind, I find them quite mysterious (I usually read people so well but with them I can’t and I find that really intriguing and attractive in a way) however one thing that is lacking is communication and it’s really starting to bother me.
They drive for work so I don’t expect to hear from them throughout the day which is fine - but on most days I don’t even get a morning message like before work or after work either - for example they finished work at 5pm today and they still haven’t replied to my message from around 4-5pm, I doubt I’ll get one tonight at all now. To them, they are just very chilled out about getting back to people but to me it shows a lack of care or thought towards that person, like a lack of effort.
I don’t feel like I’m in a position to call them out about it though, it’s just such a shame because I really like everything else about them but I don’t want to waste my time - should I bring it up to them in a casual way or should I just leave things to fizzle out and stop making the effort back?