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AIBU?

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To think using children with SN for a school award is distasteful

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IsThatReallyNecessary · 01/06/2023 12:45

NC as this is based on a Facebook post and on the off chance I'm recognised (my DC doesn't want his ASD and learning delay public knowledge). I don't know if IABU and over sensitive. Have a friend who has super high achieving children, academically, sportingly and musically. Her posts are full of their achievements which is nice to see. Usually like, well done and carry on.

The last achievement left me a bit speechless. It was an award for being kind to, helping and making an effort to include children who are in the special education program. WTF? So they are using children with SN as the basis of a reward for children without SN, who probably find everything to do with school about 10,000 times easier than said children with SN? A little pat on the back, complete with certificate and award ceremony in front of parents for deigning to notice and be decent to another child. They're all human. All credit to her child for being kind, but why specify the special education? Doesn't really say a lot about the school or their expectations of the pupils does it? Is it a US/UK culture difference?

YABU and over sensitive.
YANBU - a group of children should not be used for an award like this

OP posts:
x2boys · 01/06/2023 15:58

RafaistheKingofClay · 01/06/2023 15:15

I think it may be a bit of cultural difference in that we probably aren’t talking about children in the same mainstream classroom or possibly even in the playground as you would see in most schools. It’ll be what we would think of as a special needs school operating on the same site for children who are not in mainstream.

which doesn’t make it better but I’d guess it’s more equivalent to the poster who’s child was given a certificate for helping out in a special needs school than being given one for being a friend or just being nice to or playing with children with SEN.

My sons special.school,is attached to.a large mainstream academy although they are very definitely two.separate schools they used to share a reception and a dining hall ,but now they haver their own reception and dining hall I didn't wasnt keen on them sharing facilities as they are very vulnerable children and easy targets .

changedforanswer · 01/06/2023 16:02

pinkyredrose · 01/06/2023 13:14

That's awful! Imagine if there was an award for being extra nice to a black kid?

Exactly.

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 01/06/2023 16:04

What exactly did their effort involve? Were the children aware there would be an award offered as a reward?

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