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To think people with an average mortgage are still far better off than their renting counterparts

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Theinventoroftoasterstrudel · 28/05/2023 21:06

I met with a friend today who was moaning about having sorted their remortgage this week and how their payments have increased by £250 a month due to interest rises. She's now paying £1000 for their 3 bed semi and I do fully appreciate how stressful knowing this remortgage was due has been for them this past year and how painful suddenly paying so much more is. I'm not in any way trying to minimise that for my friend or others with a mortgage in this position.

However, I rent and we live in a very similar property in a similar area to her which I had been paying over £1100 for for the past 2 years and a few months ago this increased to £1250. When we were told about the increase we looked to see if there was anything we could possibly find for cheaper and everything comparable was actually closer to the £1400 mark.

I feel like the news has covered the impact interest rises are having on home owners virtually every day since the mini budget last September but renter's have only had a cursory 'and rents will increase due to landlords passing on their increases' at the end of the odd story. And with zero acknowledgement that rents were already so much higher than mortgages anyway and still are. It's not like renting has suddenly become the better option; it's still utterly impossible!

Am I being unreasonable to think there needs to be more outrage and support for renters and not just those needing to remortgage.

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Scienceadvisory · 29/05/2023 01:16

I think in the long term owners are usually in a better position than renters but it won't be true in every case. Think of all the flat owners with cladding issues - some have been paying thousands of pounds a year for fire safety patrols etc and can't sell because nobody wants a flat with unresolved cladding issues.

Then there are those who buy a new build that it turns out are so poorly constructed they are practically worthless. Over the last couple of weeks there has been news reports of one development where 850k properties may need to be torn down. The owners are in limbo and will pay a fortune in legal fees and other costs even if the actual cost of their property ends up being covered hy another party.

Then if you add to that all those in negative equity and then those who have their homes repossessed its clear that there is a significant minority who would have been better off remaining renters.

BigChesterDraws · 29/05/2023 01:20

Makes me wonder why you’re renting then, if homeowners are getting such a good deal.

50450750q · 29/05/2023 01:31

BigChesterDraws · 29/05/2023 01:20

Makes me wonder why you’re renting then, if homeowners are getting such a good deal.

Really? You think everyone who rents has just decided they don't want to own a house?

CountessBathorysBeautySecrets · 29/05/2023 01:43

BigChesterDraws · 29/05/2023 01:20

Makes me wonder why you’re renting then, if homeowners are getting such a good deal.

mmmmm, yeah, really makes you wonder why everyone doesn't just, like, buy a 4 bed house.

CountessBathorysBeautySecrets · 29/05/2023 01:48

Theinventoroftoasterstrudel · 28/05/2023 22:42

@TUCKINGFYP0 but I wasn't comparing renting with being a landlord, I was comparing renting to having a mortgage on your own home that you actually live in yourself. Being a landlord is about making money, of course it's whole different ballgame.

Landlords always have to wang on about how everything is more difficult for them actually.

This thread isn't even about landlords and yet here they are moaning...

CountessBathorysBeautySecrets · 29/05/2023 01:50

Forshameandyegads · 28/05/2023 23:30

I'm currently selling my house. And I plan to go in to rented, despite being able to buy a new house. I just don't want to be responsible for the maintenance. Boiler breaks - find someone to sort it, they don't turn up, call somebody else they can't fix it, find someone to install a new one, pay £££ for it. Shower breaks, find a plumber, he can't do it, need an electrician, they're like hens teeth pay £££ to sort it. I just can't be bothered with it ay more.

mmm, so believable

SD1978 · 29/05/2023 04:08

It's shit for everyone, and I don't think it should/ needs to be a race to the bottom. Renters won't see a monthly increase as they are protected from that- my mortgage payment has gone up 10 times in the last 12 months with rate rises. Renters get the whole increase foisted on then once a year- which is based in the payments increase and an areas popularity. I do think landlords though should also be happy enough to put rents back down when things are better rate wise.

stayathomer · 29/05/2023 04:43

Yanbu, the difference between us renting and now owning is huge and I find it so sad that things have changed so that not everyone can own- dhs parents were poor and were given a bridging loan so they could buy in the 70s. We bought in 00s before huge deposits came in. We pay four hundred euro less than when we rented a damp, cold house. So you are dnbu, everyone should have the right and option to own imo BUT BUT BUT you shouldn’t have linked your question to someone who could be finding it difficult at the moment financially, it’s in the same vein as when you rant about your job and someone says ‘but you’re lucky to have a job’- yeah, but at the moment I’m finding things tough, hence the reason I’m telling my friend!!!!

stayathomer · 29/05/2023 04:45

Forshameandyegads
I think you might regret your decision in the future, maybe think more about it!!

crazyaboutcats · 29/05/2023 04:49

Yes thats the point of buying

Thesunnymood · 29/05/2023 05:04

Theinventoroftoasterstrudel · 28/05/2023 21:40

Okay, so the argument for home maintenance (not improving to your personal taste because we all know that landlords absolutely don't do this.. Genuine, essential maintenance), you're telling me that the average homeowner spends £3000 a year, every year on this? Because that's the difference between my rent and my friend's new mortgage rate. And like I said, if I were to move I'd actually be looking at £1400 so that's £4800 a year, just on essential maintenance. I'm sorry, but I find that hard to believe.

Difference between mortgage on my house and rent is about that. Easily that has to go on the house. But it's not that you spend 3k every year. One year it's 1500 next it's 5k. Fucking dreading when boiler will go.
Last 12 months
Insurance 300
General upkeep repairs (gate loose, small fence patch up etc) cca 800 just on materials
Roofer 400
Boiler check 70
Toilet flush parts 20
Window handle 10 (just material)
Into repair savings 800
Next year there will not be roofer 🤞 but instead it will be fence and back gate 2.5k+. Probably will need to change toilet too. Old toilet flush mechanisms don't seem to 100% fit. The year after god knows how much on new boiler.
Small repairs are rice's without labour costs which make considerable difference.

Yes, people can still go with *bit it will be youuuurs" and yes, in 20 years it might. But yearly costs are not that different unless you have new build in Warranty.

LT2 · 29/05/2023 05:09

YANBU.
I've had people try and tell me that at least renters don't need to keep up with maintainence and repairs, that somehow that makes paying a mortgage worse than renting. It is always going to be better to have the asset of a house. We are paying our mortgage off this year (may upsize and get another mortgage at some point) in our early 30s. Being mortgage free this young is going to be an immense freedom.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 05:34

Theinventoroftoasterstrudel · 28/05/2023 21:29

I'm genuinely not trying to say that people with mortgages are not struggling. It's hard to word exactly what mean without it sounding like I'm saying 'people with mortgages have it so easy' but that's not what I'm trying to say.
I just feel that since last September, the discussion has been pretty much exclusively about how it's those with mortgages that are suffering the most due to interest rate rises but it is simply a fact (it seems) that it's still more expensive to rent and renters are taking just as much of a financial hit as a direct result of the interest rate rises but no one's talking about that anymore.
And yes I appreciate that there are other costs involved in home ownership but unless your mortgage is up for remortgage soon, this isn't something that is currently affecting every homeowner where everyone I know who rents seems to have had their rent increased. And you can bet you bottom dollar that not every one of their landlords has actually had to remortgage when they made the decision to increase their rent.

I understand what you’re saying and it’s a good point.
I’m a home owner but I agree the media is more obsessed with our struggle while interest rates are rising than the struggle of people renting.
I think it is harder for renters. They are affected by the interest rate rises too as this is reflected in higher rents. And they have the insecurity of renting to worry about too, especially with so many landlords leaving that business because it’s no longer as profitable.

realityhack · 29/05/2023 05:43

Theinventoroftoasterstrudel · 28/05/2023 21:29

I'm genuinely not trying to say that people with mortgages are not struggling. It's hard to word exactly what mean without it sounding like I'm saying 'people with mortgages have it so easy' but that's not what I'm trying to say.
I just feel that since last September, the discussion has been pretty much exclusively about how it's those with mortgages that are suffering the most due to interest rate rises but it is simply a fact (it seems) that it's still more expensive to rent and renters are taking just as much of a financial hit as a direct result of the interest rate rises but no one's talking about that anymore.
And yes I appreciate that there are other costs involved in home ownership but unless your mortgage is up for remortgage soon, this isn't something that is currently affecting every homeowner where everyone I know who rents seems to have had their rent increased. And you can bet you bottom dollar that not every one of their landlords has actually had to remortgage when they made the decision to increase their rent.

You are absolutely right OP and I dont think you were making it into a suffering competition. I have a mortgage and where I live (one of the most expensive places outside of London) renters are usually paying double what people with mortgages are. I've been shocked at how high rental rates are.

This is why I never understand threads on here where people go on about how renting is so much better than owning. If you can own, its far preferable for reasons of cost and also the fact that you dont have to worry about your lease ending.

FearTheWankingDead · 29/05/2023 05:53

Another problem that owners have is they have to pay huge deposit, the costs of having an owning a him eg a broken boiler and then once it’s all paid off you go in a care home and half the house is used to pay for it. Those in rentals don’t have that issue.
I know someone has to pay and it’s not a fair system, I am not saying to do anything dodgy to avoid this issue (signing house to relatives or whatever) just pointing out it’s another negative of home ownership.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 05:57

Larner · 28/05/2023 22:01

Apart from Madwife, it would seem.

The clue may be in username.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 05:59

Madwife123 · 28/05/2023 22:10

You need equity in the home to be able to do those things and take breaks.

You don't need equity in the home to extend the term of the mortgage.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 06:08

Madwife123 · 28/05/2023 22:19

The only way we could afford to buy our first home was using the government help to buy scheme. Which they should have called “help to get yourself in crippling debt that you actually can’t afford”. So our deposit was by much at all. And as the help to buy scheme had to be a new build that’s what we bought so we paid over the odds and like all new builds the house lost value initially.

You should stop blaming the government for all your problems and start taking some personal responsibility.

You chose to have 3 children before getting on the property ladder, you chose to buy a new build via Help to Buy which almost inevitably then fell in value (in the short term). It is a series of bad financial decisions that has led you to negative equity, unfortunately.

ThomasinaLivesHere · 29/05/2023 06:08

Yanbu and I say that as someone with a mortgage. I also don’t get people with mortgages arguing against. It’s easier to sell up and rent a place than it is to get a mortgage for a place.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 06:14

Sillysosij · 29/05/2023 00:44

I pay £13000 a year to house myself and my child.
I’ve been renting for 10 years, since I left home at 18. If I want to keep living in the same (poky 2 bed) house until I die, I will have spent £800,000 on housing. And I will have nothing to show for it. What will my child inherit? What will we have to show for almost a million pounds spent, other than someone else’s mortgage paid off twice over?

All arguments aside, i cannot understand how anyone can argue it is financially better to rent. I want something to show for the two mortgages I’ll have paid off. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to make themselves feel better by avoiding the uncomfortable reality that renting is currently hugely exploitative.

I agree with this.

Thesunnymood · 29/05/2023 06:16

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 06:08

You should stop blaming the government for all your problems and start taking some personal responsibility.

You chose to have 3 children before getting on the property ladder, you chose to buy a new build via Help to Buy which almost inevitably then fell in value (in the short term). It is a series of bad financial decisions that has led you to negative equity, unfortunately.

I have to say I was surprised how many people around mine went with help to buy on new builds which were 2x+, usually nearly 3x the price of older builds around and smaller for 250k. Eg. New build 3 bed 70sqm no loft space since that was a bedroom, while 40s 3bed 70qm + like 30sqm loft and it was under 100k. Few streets away from each other. And it's not like the new builds didn't have issues! They were also quite often leasehold.

littleblackcat27 · 29/05/2023 06:17

The grass really isn’t greener on either side!

Of course it is - it is a lot greener on the side where the homeowner has a roof over their heads for no monthly outlay after paying off their mortgage. And then with a choice to sell the property - usually with a profit.

Not sure why you're trying to convince people that renting and then having housing benefit makes them better off - cos that's just nuts.

Thesunnymood · 29/05/2023 06:20

And don't forget interest. I think it works out that if you take 100k on 4% for 20 years, repayment would be about 600 so you pay back about 140k.

Twiglets1 · 29/05/2023 06:27

Thesunnymood · 29/05/2023 06:16

I have to say I was surprised how many people around mine went with help to buy on new builds which were 2x+, usually nearly 3x the price of older builds around and smaller for 250k. Eg. New build 3 bed 70sqm no loft space since that was a bedroom, while 40s 3bed 70qm + like 30sqm loft and it was under 100k. Few streets away from each other. And it's not like the new builds didn't have issues! They were also quite often leasehold.

I looked into Help to Buy (always new builds I think) with my daughter as she was struggling to get on the property ladder. It was never a good scheme to make money from (as a buyer), only a last resort for people desperate to own their own place.

It's hard enough to make money from new build houses anyway (in the short term) - but the Help to Buy ones are not in the best locations, so even more chance of falling into negative equity because the only attractive thing about them is that they are brand new, which changes once someone moves in.

Thesunnymood · 29/05/2023 06:28

@Twiglets1 yesand what's absolutely mind boggling is they are often labelled "affordable"....

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