Hi everyone, sorry if this seems silly but I'm 36 weeks pregnant and taking everything very seriously in general, but here goes.
A month ago I received a friend request on Instagram from a woman I don't know, with whon I only had a friend in common, my FIL. I asked my dp about her and he said she was a friend of her father, from his village (we are both foreigners, so his father lives in his home country, I see him only when we go on holidays) I declined the request as I usually do with anyone I don't know personally and I didn't give it more importance. A couple of weeks ago, I get the same friend request from this woman again, along with a message from my FIL, saying (not even asking) that I should accept this woman, that she was his girlfriend (followed by stupid love smileys and complicity) I mentioned it to my dp, who seemed quite surprised, both by his father's strange insistence and by the fact that he had a girlfriend and that this was the way to announce it. Dp limited himself to saying that he would also be uncomfortable, and that I explained to my FIL that I don't feel comfortable and I did so. I expressed my congratulations, but that I was very sorry, that I do not accept requests from people I do not know personally, however, we would all know each other when we go to his country(September) to introduce him to his granddaughter. His response was a cold 'okay'. The next day I find another friend request again, this time from himself who apparently had deleted me from the networks and later regretted it. Again, I told my dp and also added that I was not going to accept his father anymore in the networks. He just accepted (very surprised again by his father's behavior) but we haven't talked about it again. Now I find myself in the situation that my FIL is dedicated to sending me his friend requests several times a week, which I find annoying and makes me want to block directly. I have to say that he and my dp are not very close, although my dp tries a lot, even when isn't a good father. My SIL hasn't spoken to him for years and doesn't want to hear from him, in fact I don't like him very much either. He doesn't seem like a bad man to me, but I definitely don't like the way he is. He pretends that he is a close and loving father there in his hometown, and he dedicates himself to downloading the photos that I myself publish (mine and my dp's) to post them on his networks and pretend with his friends. It also bothers me to have him as a friend because he can see when I post with my MIL and my SIL, with whom I do have a close and affectionate relationship (they live 2km from us). I don't know what to do, it bothers me to have him so aware of that aspect, he is giving too much importance to having me as a friend and I don't understand how he can add me and unaggregate me to get attention. Should I block it? I don't want to have him among my friends again.