DS11 started high school in sept. Since then a group of boys in his year (3 of them) have had a dislike.
DS has gone from being a popular kid in primary, to few friends and being bullied.
This week, he’s been punched in the face/ head on 2 occasions by 2 of the boys. DS is not a fighter and has run off, upset/ crying both times to find a teacher.
(Lots more ‘little’ incidents since sept - usual name calling, tripping up/ pushing etc).
Hes now obviously being called a ‘grass’ and a ‘snitch’ - even though he has bruising on his face.
School weren’t aware of the 1st incident until I sent them pictures and told them (communication between staff doesn’t seem great!). Bully1 has been internally excluded for 2 days.
Bully2 was sent home halfway through today after punching DS, and isn’t allowed in tomorrow before breaking up for half term.
I don’t feel this is good enough. Tonight I’ve filed a police report via 101 for physical assault and cyber bullying, although now I’m so worried that this will cause DS more issues. Police are due to come out tomorrow to take a statement, but I haven’t yet told DS.
YABU - shouldn’t have called 101, let the kids/ school deal with it themselves
YANBU - this is too serious for the school to fob off with lame punishments