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AIBU?

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Feel like I want to move.

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SpringHexagon · 25/05/2023 20:42

My husband and I love in the same village as my parents and 2 of my brother's, and my partner's parents, grandparents, brother aunties, uncles, cousins (basically most of our families stay in this village).
I do not like having visitors at all, but I like them even less when they are unanounced.
I feel on edge quite alot because I never know when someone is going to turn up at my house, I have even been made to feel guilty a few times for being on my way out when some of them have decided to turn up at my door.
I end up spending alot of time out of the house because it gets to me so much. I really want to move out of the village, maybe 15-20 mins away.
Is this an unreasonable reaction? I have such a desire to escape this place and get some peace 😂

OP posts:
destinyh · 25/05/2023 22:53

YABU to not just tell them! It is a perfectly reasonable boundary to not have people randomly turn up

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