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659 replies

Meeting · 25/05/2023 12:55

The Theatre Royal Stratford East is putting on a show and have blocked out 2 dates as "Blackout" nights where they encourage (but I don't think plan to enforce) that only black people may attend these performances.

I saw them discussing it on Piers Morgan and neither of the guests advocating for it were able to convince me that this type of segregation was at all beneficial.

Does anybody think this is a good idea? Personally I think segregation based on skin colour has no place in society, no matter who benefits from it. But I'm interested to hear from others who might away it differently?

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BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 25/05/2023 14:28

Aeth · 25/05/2023 13:18

Oh yes, us poor, underrepresented white people definitely need this. The disproportionate amount of discrimination we often suffer just for being wh... no, wait a second. 🙄

Yes OP, YABU. Are 28 evenings out of 29 not enough? Did you plan to see the show on that particular night? Plus people of other races ARE NOT EVEN BANNED on that night. Jeez. It's embarrassing when people start the "but what about white people?!" nonsense. And I'm white.

Well said!

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 14:28

We also need to get rid of "quiet hour" for ND children at events and activities as it discriminates against NT children.

Sissynova · 25/05/2023 14:29

cocksstrideintheevening · 25/05/2023 14:28

Men go to ladies day too?

And white people can go to this show...

chilling19 · 25/05/2023 14:29

'I used to be a mechanical engineer, and many engineering companies are trying to do "positive discrimination" to encourage more women into engineering. So despite only 1 in 8 (or even fewer) engineers being female, over half the applicants selected for interview are female. Why can I not compete on my own merit against any other applicant?!
^
I do not want to be given an interview just because I'm female. I want to be given an interview because I have worked hard and I am good at what I do!^'

Err, the reason for positive discrimination is precisely because as a female 'I have worked hard and I am good at what I do' doesn't work. If it did, there would be no need for it.

Kanaloa · 25/05/2023 14:29

LeevMarie · 25/05/2023 14:23

Ludicrous argument. The major problem with all of this is that the notion of 'black people' and 'white people' belonging to two homogenous groups is completely flawed. Many ethnically white people understand the history of the oppression of those of black origin; many are pretty stupid and don't.

Likewise, some black people still, perversely, enjoy the notion of racial segragation; thankfully, many more probably think that this is an incredibly regressive move.

It’s not a ludicrous argument at all. And regardless of whether you think you understand the history of the oppression of those of black origin or not, that does not entitle you to their experiences.

MasterBeth · 25/05/2023 14:29

MrsAnonstrikesagain · 25/05/2023 14:27

I always think with things like this, that the thing to do, is to consider whether you could reverse the colours and see how that looks.

So, would it be ok to have a "whiteout night", where black people aren't allowed to attend? Obviously that would cause uproar, so there is your answer. It's racist, pure and simple.

Your cunning plan would work if white people and black people had equal experiences based on their ethnicity. They don't.

EasternEcho · 25/05/2023 14:30

MrsAnonstrikesagain · 25/05/2023 14:27

I always think with things like this, that the thing to do, is to consider whether you could reverse the colours and see how that looks.

So, would it be ok to have a "whiteout night", where black people aren't allowed to attend? Obviously that would cause uproar, so there is your answer. It's racist, pure and simple.

But it clearly says no one is excluded from attending.

TheHandmaiden · 25/05/2023 14:31

It's a little like International Womens Day. The rest of the year is pretty much men's. So too with the theatre. It's pretty harmless to do this unless you count the blood pressure of Daily Mail readers

JudgeJ · 25/05/2023 14:31

SpringTime2020 · 25/05/2023 12:59

What was the rationale for it?

Free advertising for their show maybe? Ticking a box? Who Knows? Who cares?

CockSpadget · 25/05/2023 14:32

ShimmeringShirts · 25/05/2023 14:06

I don’t agree with it because it wouldn’t be acceptable in any scenario to have a “white only” night. If they want to do this they also need to do an Asian and White only night IMO.

It isn’t a “black only” night. So why are you saying it is?

Flossflower · 25/05/2023 14:33

I think it is a good idea. It will encourage more black people to go to the theatre. They may have thought in the past that these things were for the white elite. I would also support audiences made up unemployed , disabled people etc. If and when we have equality there will be no need for positive discrimination!

Hadjab · 25/05/2023 14:34

Lidlpopdrinker · 25/05/2023 13:28

I don’t find it offensive, no. There’s nothing stopping me from going if I want to, aside from the thing that normally stops me, which is cost. That isn’t race specific though.

I do however think it sounds ridiculous. I imagine most black people who can afford to and want to will go to the theatre regardless. If they want to attract more people from ethnic minorities then they should probably look at representation, rather than just having a special Black People night. Cost though is probably the biggest impediment for most people who would like to go but cannot/won’t.

typical elitist response imo, coming up with some woke gimmicky nonsense, rather than actually addressing the reasons why certain groups of people are less likely to engage with the theatre.

It may seem ridiculous to you, but I can assure you it isn't. I'm a black woman who goes to the theatre regularly. I can afford it, I enjoy it, and more importantly, I'm not intimidated by it, but there are plenty of black (and also white and non-white) people who are intimidated by the arts, and feel like it's not for them, not just due to cost, but also due to content and the basic belief that the theatre is a white, middle class pursuit. This applies to the cast, as well as the audience. Anything that encourages greater diversity in all aspects of the arts isn't a bad thing. Representation does actually matter, as amply illustrated by incidents such as people start losing their shit over fictional characters being played by non-white actors.

IClaudine · 25/05/2023 14:38

SparklyBlackKitten · 25/05/2023 14:19

Imagine if they did this but in reverse. And ssying only white people allowed

Oh my... I would wanna see how thatwould go down 😅

Its freaking rediculous is what it is
Racism works 2 ways.
This clearly is a case of racism.

Instead of not allowing a certain race. Lets encourage other races to come.

Instead of not allowing a certain race. Lets encourage other races to come

Um, that is exactly what is happening in this case. Not so "rediculous", huh.

CockSpadget · 25/05/2023 14:38

The chief of Scottish police has today admitted that his force is institutionally racist. Seems like a few of them frequent Mumsnet as well.

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 14:39

Sissynova · 25/05/2023 13:51

Probably because lots of people vote but don't read the full thread and your OP very blatantly misrepresented the situation. It would be interesting to see the voting on a less inflamatory and frankly false OP.

Guessing the vote is different because those who YANBU don’t want to make a comment and receive ‘negative’ ? etc type comments.

Hadjab · 25/05/2023 14:39

Meeting · 25/05/2023 14:17

I came believe so many people are in support of segregation

Just to clarify what segregation actually means:

''the separation or isolation of a race, class, or ethnic group by enforced or voluntary residence in a restricted area, by barriers to social intercourse, by separate educational facilities, or by other discriminatory means.''

The aim here is not to create a barrier to social intercourse, but to actively encourage it, for a specific group who have historically not been given that avenue.

Much like the feminism board, right here on Mumsnet...

Sissynova · 25/05/2023 14:41

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 14:39

Guessing the vote is different because those who YANBU don’t want to make a comment and receive ‘negative’ ? etc type comments.

Can't you just be racist without being called a racist these days??

Hadjab · 25/05/2023 14:43

IClaudine · 25/05/2023 14:38

Instead of not allowing a certain race. Lets encourage other races to come

Um, that is exactly what is happening in this case. Not so "rediculous", huh.

Please show us exactly where it says whites will be refused entry to the performance?

IClaudine · 25/05/2023 14:43

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 14:28

We also need to get rid of "quiet hour" for ND children at events and activities as it discriminates against NT children.

And signed film screenings and live performances. So annoying for the hearing community.

DidyouNO · 25/05/2023 14:44

Segregation on any level is never, ever good. Racism in any form is racism. It breeds contempt and brings acknowledgment to differences between people. Everyone, no matter what, should be treated equally.

bryceQ · 25/05/2023 14:44

Why does anyone care?

I have been to women only business events, I take my son to autism only sessions, my husband is part of a black londoners group at work.... It's not forced segregation its understanding that sometimes marginalised groups want a safe space. It doesn't mean they aren't equals.

MrsAnonstrikesagain · 25/05/2023 14:44

EasternEcho · 25/05/2023 14:30

But it clearly says no one is excluded from attending.

You know very well that white people are not welcome, and have been discouraged from attending. The nights are called blackout nights, so that black people can enjoy the show, away from the "white gaze". Could you say that the other way around? If not, why not?

JustBeKindItsEasy · 25/05/2023 14:45

EmptyBedBlues · 25/05/2023 14:09

White, though from an ethnic group which experiences discrimination in the UK, and I have no issue whatsoever with this. Have you seen how white theatre audiences are?

I don’t understand this comment.
I don’t take any notice of whose in the theatre when I’m there.
What are white theatre audiences like.

BadNomad · 25/05/2023 14:46

This attitude isn't really a surprise. Look at how much uproar there was when MN created the Black Mumsnetters subforum at the request of POC who wanted somewhere they could feel comfortable talking, away from the attitudes of non-POC. People were outraged at the segregation and felt (still feel?) that they have the right to go in there to abuse or offer their "alternative" opinion when it isn't asked for.

IClaudine · 25/05/2023 14:49

DidyouNO · 25/05/2023 14:44

Segregation on any level is never, ever good. Racism in any form is racism. It breeds contempt and brings acknowledgment to differences between people. Everyone, no matter what, should be treated equally.

Honestly, I am embarrassed for you. You need to research what segregation actually is.