This is so frustrating
DD has some SEN and a couple of disabilities.
She’s currently coming to the end of a 2 year level 2 diploma at college and is hoping to move onto level 3 from September.
All through primary and secondary school she was very, very well supported. The first half of her first year at college she was also well supported. However, her teacher left around Easter time and from then on it all went to shit.
They ignore everything I say as they are “encouraging independent learning” so they have no risk assessment, no emergency plan, they ignore all her needs and constantly threaten to remove her due to her low attendance (her attendance is low because of her disabilities that they are not supporting) but despite that, she is doing very well in her diploma course.
Following advice from SENDiass, I applied for an EHCNA in September 2022. Originally we were turned down on the basis that college hadn’t supplied enough information. We went for mediation - college supplied the same information again, however we had lots of additional reports from CAMHS, Paediatrics, etc, so the original No was overturned before we even had the mediation meeting.
EHCP was granted and we’re now at the draft stage.
Draft is great, however, there is a lot of stuff in there that are “nice to haves” rather than necessities and are actually already being covered by other services - CCAMHS, disability-related support groups, she will be referred on to appropriate adult mental health services when she’s 18.
As a result, I emailed college to ask for a meeting so we could go through the plan and work out what we needed, what was missing and what was unnecessary so we could make our response to the LA.
They refused. They then emailed to say they had responded to the LA. I asked if they could share their response with me, as, per my previous email, maybe stuff they had issues with could be solved with a conversation with me. They refused.
I’ve since spoken with the LA Caseworker and now know what the issues are - exactly the ‘nice to haves’ that I had asked to discuss with college in the first bloody place.
The caseworker mentioned that she’d invited the college to be involved in writing the plan - they refused. She’s asked for a meeting - they refused. We have an online hub where we’re all supposed to upload documents, reports and responses - they refuse to use it.
Is this normal? Should we be working together here or are my expectations off? College said they were supportive of my EHCNA application at the time, but their actions tell a very different story.
We’re now in a kind of stand off and I have no idea what happens next. The LA caseworker is actually super helpful and have reassured us that there are lots of options available to DD so not to panic, but it’s so bloody frustrating.
I thought about complaining to Ofsted actually, is that an option?
Unfortunately, this college is the only place in our area that do the diploma-type courses in the area she wants to do.
Thanks!