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Malicious ex employee - what to do?

24 replies

Endlesssummer2022 · 23/05/2023 18:59

Posting here for traffic. Need advice on behalf of a friend. She runs her own small business and hired a guy last year. She let him go during probation for inappropriate behaviour, such as sexual jokes, swearing loudly, not following instructions and other very bizarre behaviours which made others feel very uncomfortable.

Anyway since he’s been let go, he’s waged a campaign of harassment, posting crap about her on Facebook, LinkedIn etc. It escalated to him emailing all of her clients saying she was under investigation for modern day slavery, physical abuse, homophobia and racism. This is all untrue. She called all of her clients to tell them this was untrue. All of her existing clients of course believed her, however, a brand new client who was in the process of joining has backed away. They were worth a lot of money. She’s devastated. She can barely speak for crying.

What can she do?

OP posts:
IamAlso4eels · 23/05/2023 19:00

Engage a solicitor to send a cease and desist letter, consider it an investment.

ExtraOnions · 23/05/2023 19:00

What have the Police said ?

HettySunshine · 23/05/2023 19:01

Is it called a Cease and Desist letter? Stating that he must stop his behaviour or she will take further action.

CwmYoy · 23/05/2023 19:03

ExtraOnions · 23/05/2023 19:00

What have the Police said ?

What in OP's post makes you think they are involved?

Very strange question. Address the post, perhaps, not what isn't there.

Lizzt2007 · 23/05/2023 19:13

She needs to report it to the police, it's harassment. She could also see a solicitor and send a cease and desist. Ultimately she could sue for slander /defamation.

Fuckitydoodah · 23/05/2023 19:17

She needs legal advice. I'm sure he'd soon stop if he had a solicitor letter advising him she's going to take him to court for libel & slander. As others have said, a cease and desist letter is probably the first step.

She may have legal cover with her business insurance. They often have a legal helpline.

Endlesssummer2022 · 23/05/2023 19:23

Thanks. I will ask her if she has legal cover as part of her insurance. She’s so upset she’s not even thinking straight. I advised her to go to the police when it first started. She was hoping if she called all of her clients and asked him to stop that would be the end of the matter but when the new client backed away she was distraught.

OP posts:
MayBeeJuneSoon · 23/05/2023 19:36

No @CwmYoy that was a valid question

HermioneWeasley · 23/05/2023 19:38

It’s defamation and she has a provable loss arising. She’s going to have to take legal action

Shylo · 23/05/2023 19:41

I wouldn’t waste your time or money on a cease and desist - defamation is a civil matter and damages are very low even if you drag him through court

what he’s doing is harassment, which is crime - I’d go to the police now if I were her

supadupapupascupa · 23/05/2023 19:45

He sounds obsessed with her. I'd also want an injunction.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 23/05/2023 19:47

If it is in writing it is libel. She can sue him for financial damages (she has already lost one client) and legal costs.

She should also talk to the police about harassment.

Endlesssummer2022 · 23/05/2023 20:12

Thanks all. She’s saying it’s a waste of time going through court and querying what the police will do. I’ve told her everything here so I’ll leave it to her. She’s feeling very sorry for herself at the moment. Maybe tomorrow she'll think clearly and act.

Thanks all.

OP posts:
thinkfast · 23/05/2023 20:19

A cease and desist letter from a reputable lawyer could well deter him. It's worth her discussing with a lawyer.

junglejane66 · 23/05/2023 20:20

ExtraOnions · 23/05/2023 19:00

What have the Police said ?

Giant steps are what you take, walking on the moon

ShivWambsgans · 23/05/2023 20:27

ExtraOnions · 23/05/2023 19:00

What have the Police said ?

You don’t have to put on the red light

Fuckitydoodah · 23/05/2023 20:44

ShivWambsgans · 23/05/2023 20:27

You don’t have to put on the red light

😆

nalabae · 23/05/2023 20:48

Omg this is insane. The amount of angry bitter people out there, she should get the police involved it's harrassment

nalabae · 23/05/2023 20:49

Me personally I would ring him and have it out with him.

Shadowworry · 23/05/2023 20:50

HermioneWeasley · 23/05/2023 19:38

It’s defamation and she has a provable loss arising. She’s going to have to take legal action

This

LlynTegid · 23/05/2023 20:54

@nalabae I would not use the phone with such people. Go to the police and if they are ineffective, contact the Police and Crime Commissioner.

ChildcarePanic · 23/05/2023 20:54

Another one saying police

Hereward1332 · 23/05/2023 21:38

Ignoring his behaviour, how did he get all the clients' email addresses? He shouldn't have access to their personal data except through work.

ChildcarePanic · 23/05/2023 22:06

Hereward1332 · 23/05/2023 21:38

Ignoring his behaviour, how did he get all the clients' email addresses? He shouldn't have access to their personal data except through work.

Clients often refer to organisations

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