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To feel a calling to retrain to become a nurse or doctor

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belongin · 22/05/2023 20:47

I'm in my late 20s and work in sales in the pharmaceutical industry. Ever since I was a teenager doing my a-levels I've felt this longing to become a doctor. I always brushed it off and thought I'm not clever enough or outgoing/confident enough for it. The desire has followed me ever since, and every few months it comes up and I just feel like I belong in the medical field. I've worked in the NHS in the labs before and enjoyed being in the NHS and the team work aspect and found the work highly rewarding but I found the lab work monotonous. Now I'm in pharmaceutical sales and I feel like it's interesting and I get to interact with some of the top specialist doctors in the world but it's not close enough to the patient, and more commercial than I would like. I recently had day surgery and spent most of the time just watching the nurses and doctors, and I just felt like I belonged there in that kind of working environment. By nature I'm a very empathetic and caring person, but can be quiet.

I rent but I'm single with no children so I don't have any responsibilities to think about. I have some savings.

WIBU to consider this?

OP posts:
Feetupteashot · 23/05/2023 23:15

Yabu unless you have done some patient facing work experience. Try and get a volunteer job in hospice or hospital. Or HCA work. Doctoring and nursing is not quite what most people think! You spend a lot of time with general public rather than the professional people you work with now

Ididdiabetes · 23/05/2023 23:27

Honestly, you’re nuts. Nurse of over 25 years here. Anyone who tells me they are thinking of training as a nurse I tell them to think again and come up with something else. I have many amazing friends who do incredibly work, but they are all tired and disillusioned.
DP of over 20 years is a specialist surgical consultant. His job is shit. He’s never not being contacted about things. Patients, team problems, endless, pointless bullshit. Every day. Endlessly. It’s all shit. On all fronts. Neither of us can barely count the days until we retire. Sorry.

Famzonhol · 24/05/2023 11:37

belongin · 23/05/2023 21:42

Thank you all, I really appreciate the honest insights. Ideally I would love to be a GP, but after some more thought I think nursing or PA is the route to go down as I do want some autonomy and choice over where I live.

I had considered applying to PA courses for a few years, and was going to this year but then changed my mind and now I've missed the deadline for the September 2023 entry.

I know for me one of the biggest factors in how happy I am in my job is feeling that what I'm doing is making a difference in someway. I really struggle to stay motivated in my current job as the bulk of what I do is to help drive sales. I was a lot happier when earning minimum wage as a lab assistant in the NHS doing monotonous procedures for 12 hour shifts as I found it a lot more rewarding.

Gosh OP I think you may be one of the few who could actually really enjoy medicine. Hopefully as a mature graduate you’d be tough and savvy enough to walk away from any really crappy work conditions and only work where you want to work.

Famzonhol · 24/05/2023 11:38

Many medics in their early twenties are too intimidated to speak up or drive their own pathways and by the time they reach their 40s they’re burned out. Such a pity.

Famzonhol · 24/05/2023 11:41

There are some great hospitals and GP practices and some medics who adore what they do despite the huge work and study load. The trick is to go into it with your eyes wide open and don’t fall for the But it’s a Vocation mantra as you will just get walked on and have other people’s work thrown on you.

mycoffeecup · 24/05/2023 12:33

Graduate medicine is 4 years, but very competitive to get into

Do you want to stay in the UK? Most newly qualified doctors are heading for Australia within the first few years.............

Hamstress26 · 04/01/2024 18:55

100% also hospital doctor.

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