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Period poverty and not being able to afford sanitary products

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youdothebestvoices · 22/05/2023 12:24

I recently saw something somewhere about the tax that is on feminine hygiene products (tampons, pads) and although the tax has been scrapped, this was never reflected in the cost of the products, and therefore the companies are just making more money without benefits being passed on to the consumer. This is unfair, of course.

This prompted a wider discussion around period poverty, and I suggested people try to switch to reusables if possible. Better for the environment, better for your pocket long term. I've been using them for about a year and I've probably saved around £70 this year and they're all going strong, no staining, I'll probably have them for several years before I need to think about replacing. I got a bit of stick for this saying how are people meant to be able to afford reusables if they can't afford disposables.
I think a starter pack of reusable pads will cost around £30 - £40, which includes everything you generally need for one full period, and individuals will cost somewhere in the region of between £3 - £7. There is also the option of making your own. A box of disposables will be somewhere between £1 - £7 depending on the brand you choose.
A reusable cup is circa £20 and there are other options too.

I really don't care if somebody chooses to use disposables, I opted for reusables once I realised how much I'd save long term, that I could get them customised for my flow (meaning I use three times less pads per day), better for the environment, less likely to give you thrush. Regardless of this, they aren't for everyone, that is fine.

But here is a serious question, and I am sorry if this comes from a place of privilege. Has anyone ever met anyone (in the uk) that cannot afford sanitary products? I am sure that there are people that can't, but how common is period poverty?

I can't say that I have met anyone who struggles to afford them. We are a working class household, I know several people that are on UC and receive other benefits, but none of them have ever said they struggle to buy sanitary products (this does include households with multiple women in), several of them have also opted for using period pants, cups, or similar, because they feel the initial cost is worth it longer term. Some that use disposables have just said they buy extra when they are on offer.

I'm really sorry if this is a thoughtless post and I also know that not everyone will chat to people about how easy they find it to purchase feminine hygiene products but I genuinely want to know how common this is, because I don't think I actually do know.
If you are somebody who has struggled to purchase these in the past, or now, I don't want this post to cause any offence as I genuinely want to understand if this is a common issue.

If you want to vote:
YABU - period poverty is really common
YANBU - I don't think I have met somebody who struggles with purchasing these

OP posts:
Wonderingifitstimetogo · 24/05/2023 23:28

SwordToFlamethrower · 24/05/2023 23:23

Yep, me. I was once a broke girl, trying to live independently at age 17 and absolutely could not afford the luxury of sanitary products. I had to choose between food and pads every month for several years.

It actually became a habit and was still using loo roll to line my knickers, into my late 30s.

Poverty mindset sticks.

I recently had some temporary incontinence due to my disability and I automatically just used toilet paper in my pants instead of buying incontinence pads, because of period habits from my teens and early 20s when sanitary products were a luxury I didn't have

It didnt even occur to me until the problem was fixed and the nurse commented that it would be nice not to have to buy incontinence pads any more that this was not normal behaviour.

headache · 24/05/2023 23:30

I wrote a thread this week about things you now do because you grew up in poverty and one was that I stockpile san-pro for my 3 teenage DDs. As a teenager I distinctly remember a packet of pads being 89p in our local chemist as I often was scrapping together the money for them.

EasterBreak · 24/05/2023 23:38

I've never met anyone who cannot afford them but they dish them out where I live. They give them out at my childs school and at our community centre for free. I have a box full of them as every time I go in there they hand you more. Before anyone says anything I did tell them I have a big supply and they said well they might not be free forever so stock up. So if anyone wants any I have lots.

Orders76 · 24/05/2023 23:58

There's also a whole other anxiety issue.

If you are poor, with bad sanitary conditions in general and less opportunity to look after yourself, the last thing you want to think (real or worried) is that I'm walking around smelling like period.

I don't think some people get that there are transient, poor or any other circumstances where recyclable products just cannot work for you.

Hugasauras · 25/05/2023 00:38

I don't understand the 'I've never met anyone who couldn't afford them' thing. Do you know the financial status of everyone you meet? Do you expect relative strangers to admit to you they can't afford to buy sanitary products? Given the current cost of living crisis, even people we might not imagine would ever struggle are having to use food banks. I imagine most people would be too embarrassed to tell people that they can't afford period products.

MrsMikeDrop · 25/05/2023 00:47

Firstly I don't think anyone would tell you. And I think with it, it would be that it would be seen as an unnecessary cost. I have heard of children who don't go to school when they have their period

Sunnyeverday · 02/06/2023 11:42

So admired that even you know how much she paid for her dress. Brilliant girl, she worked for it and paid her taxes instead of living off tax payers. 🤣😂🤣
Poor soul jealous of earned wealth but worships freeloading.

crazyaboutcats · 02/06/2023 15:12

I did as a teen

verdantverdure · 04/06/2023 17:55

I bought lip balm, pads and tampons for a woman once.

Her card was declined. She didn't have enough cash. She looked panicky and overwhelmed.

Money goes in, money goes out, and there's not enough left.

What's difficult to understand about that?

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