Hi all. Just wondering what other people's thoughts/experiences are. I have 3 children. Been separated for 8 years. We had access arrangements that was the same each year. Then ex husband meets a woman. After 3 months they live together. Now it's 2 years. In this time he cancels lots of dates he's supposed to see the children based on new gf work schedule. I was asking him to take the children for 1 week this year, any week and he's says they will discuss it and have decided they can't offer this. He also won't take his daughter to guides on the night he has his children as he collect his gf child from school. He won't take his own children to school either as he takes hers.
Now I'm fine if this man disappeared out of my life forever. But. I am very offended he treats his children as a choice or worse. A second choice. I have passed comment once. But its getting worse. I'm living my life second to thier/her social schedule. If I start to voice things and it gets hostile is it worth arguing this? Thank you