Dramatic posts lately

[barmycatmum]

There have been a few gasping, brow-clutching, overly dramatic posts lately that all sound like they’re written by the same person.

They’re overwritten, they all use words in such a way that it sounds like the writer is trying to sound intellectual, and they’re just WAY too similar in tone.

AIBU? Have I just been reading too much? Or is mumsnet prone to trolls on a weekend?

These threads sound like they were written by a 17 year old boy.

(and no, I am not referring to the one who just had a very bad shock concerning her long time husband. That actually rings true to me.)

I have not commented, as I am aware troll-hunting has the potential to hurt genuine posters, but my GOD it’s annoying... there’s an underlying tone of relish and enjoyment that just sets my teeth on edge.

right. That’s enough overreacting for me- off to read some actual fiction.

I hope those who genuinely need help don’t get buried amongst the bored teenagers.

That’s the very post I assumed to were referring to.

I think there's definitely some posts like that on weekends. Could be bored teens, more likely bored mums a few wines down tbh.
The one about the husband you're referring to is absolutely one of those posts and nothing would convince me otherwise.

that’s why I knew I should mention it - yes, that’s one of the hard ones for me to take in, but when someone is potentially in that much pain, I don’t want to risk hurting them just because it sounds improbable.

it’s the ones lately written by men - or claiming to be men.
I’m wondering if this is a popular site for teenage pranks

Yeah, it is … a lot. I do agree. Just want to err on the side of caution, because If it were true, that one would be so extremely rough for someone to process.

It’s not like it really matters - so I’m probably being unreasonable. The writers are burning far more energy than anyone else is putting into helping them, so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I guess it’s not hurting anyone - I’m just being a grouch 😂

@barmycatmum you make a really fair point and you're right.
I suppose even if the prank poster is talking rubbish there could be someone genuine watching or commenting on the thread who could be affected by scornful responses. Thanks for highlighting this, I hadn't really thought about it.

I totally agree and have reported them all. Mumsnet let's them stand though.

Maybe off topic but Mumsnet really isn't what it says on the tin. The amount of trolls, bullying it allows isn't great to stomach.

In times of need Mumsnet hasn't been great for me.

A few months ago I changed names and posted about how I had accidentally had an accident in bed. Dh was in the bathroom so quickly asked on here for advice. Honestly I was mortified and dying. My post got removed. I got banned. In the feedback Mumsnet said you shouldn't post that on here no help for you here on that.

Turns out I have celiac disease and diary intolerance. It came out of no place in one night.

Because of Mumsnet I am still to embarrassed to get medical help from my gp or tell anyone in real life. That's how ashamed they made me feel about reaching out for help.

Yes me too

In answer to your question, yes, Mumsnet does seem (more) prone to trolls on a weekend. Such threads are often started around midnight and are overly dramatic.

I see a lot that look like "news" outlets looking for click bait.

Omg, worst day at work, I can't face going back. I sent an email with a minor typo! Tell me your worst emails to cheer me up...aka give me a list of funny stories to capture on my website.

Or the "Internet is outraged/divided over how often you wash pj's"

Hang on- no- that’s awful!!
im so sorry. Doctors deal with things like this all day every day (and far more extreme), so if you think about it that way, I hope it helps you go get help.
every single human has had, or will have, an accident of some sort, whether it be through food poisoning or for other reasons- it’s really not something you need to hide or be ashamed of.

I know it’s really hard to just dismiss feelings of shame and embarrassment, but your body needs care, and a doctor can help you get a handle on what your body can and can’t handle.

hugs op - that’s awful - the shame most of all. I’ve heard shame called “the second arrow” - as in : the thing you’re going through is the first arrow you’re shot with, and then so many of us shoot ourselves with a “second arrow” of shame or self reproach, which can sometimes be so much worse.

💐

There is an illness one that's been around over the last few days that I just can't believe at all. I hate those the most as other women who have been in terrible positions with either their health or their partner's health or their child's health will be so kind to the poster, but I don't think that original post is genuine.