Ive decided I think I want to have an affair. I know I’m gonna get slaughtered for this. But it’s what I am genuinely considering. There’s no way out of my marriage and kids. I don’t want to go into it either. But just know this is my only bit of escape from it all, and that’s why I want the affair.
so I met this amazing guy, he is absolutely stunning, successful, very rich, nice car, my dream man in terms of looks and life. But he’s so kind and just like a real old school gentleman too, just gives me really good and genuine vibes. It’s actually almost sad how great he is , I can’t help but look at my husband who tells me I’m worthless and picks fights with me daily and wonder where I went so wrong :( i just am filled with regret.
I still can’t believe how it happened, but we swapped numbers and over about 5 days we texted. He lives 35 mins away from me but Is in the area for work sometimes. He came to see me and we went on a date, just a walk and an ice cream with my dog, but it was really sweet and romantic. We got on really well and he kissed me during and at the end of our date.. we planned to see eachother on the Sunday, two days later ..
but then , I don’t hear from him. And I am so confused and sad , which I know is crazy. I’ve been with my hubby ten years and I’m in love with this man I’ve met once and known for a week 🥲
but anyways I text him and asked what was up and why the ghost. He replied saying that he doesn’t think I’m ready. I’m too shut down and he doesn’t think it can work.
AIBU to ask him to give me another chance ? I was quite nervous on our date at the beginning and I am holding back a little because, it is an affair and he doesn’t know that. I know what I am doing is selfish , but for the first time in my life, I wanna do something for me. So should I take this chance with affair guy? Or shall I go back to the misery that is my daily life and forget it all?