Short version :
I divorced last summer, after 12 years of marriage. My wish. I have 2 children, now 15 and 20. Ex h havent seen my kids since Christmas, children Said he has new girlfriend then. (They are friends on Facebook)
Anyway my problem is this - i Think, i the last year, have done something wrong, regreding the 15 year Old dd. (20 year Old live Independent) She Think we are equel and have a right to know everything about my life, my finanses, what picture to put on the Wall, i eat too Much this, spend too Much on that - and this and that..
today it came to a head, as she was pissed off i had not told her i was speaking with Old boyfriend . (From 21 years ago, he live other end of the World) i Said i would tell her if anything impacted her, but it is my private life and she should not look at my screen. She was so upset - not so Much about me speaking to a man ( i Think) - but more i "Kept it hidden, lied about it and she obviously has no clue who i am) !!!!!
Is it me? Should i report to her, if i chat to a man??
As i hope not - how Can i get my adult life back? We moved far away after divorce and she is lonely but i cant be her teenage friend and i dont Think this is Healthy. English is not my first language