Hello , I haven't been with my exboyfriend in about a year and half now.
After 4 months dating my current partner ( were now engaged) I fell pregnant , and were so happy. I'm currently 7 months pregnant . ( he was actually my ex ex boyfriend, childhood sweetheart for 5 years but we split as we were young and attending different unis. We always said well see what the future holds further down the line. a few years later, we've reunited) we will be husband and wife when baba arrives. Anyway, I have not been with my ex for a year and a half as stated . He has been telling people my baby is his child. It's most definitely not. How would that even be possible ffs. He's said she will take legal action to ensure his names on the birth certificate. He came onto me a few months ago and I turned him down in public ( i was at a friend's wedding party 2 months pregnant) , clearly ive damaged his ego and ever since he's been twisted. He told people we slept together that night ( nope, I went home to my fiance , who didn't attend wedding with me because he was working in NW England for a week and was arriving home late that night) he put a rumour out that I had cheated on my partner and he "banged me several times that night and next morning" he told people I was too clingy , gave him an sti and sh** myself so he dumped my ass.
Legally speaking, Can he enforce me to get a dna test of my child and dispute my birth certificate? My partners name will be on the certificate as his father since that's who his father biologically is. My ex is just doing this for badness to get a rise out of me. I think he's such a twisted individual that he's willing to go to such lengths just to teach me a lesson. I've blocked his number as his last text messages on WhatsApp said "haha " My garden was vandalised during the night a few weeks ago. Haha bitch was also written on the fence. My cars been scored. My pet cat went missing and hes said many vile things to people while intoxicated like hell ruin my life horrible rumours that aren't true like how I gave him an sti and that night we apparently had intercourse he did me from behind and i sh*t over him . Its so dusgusting and vile and just embarrassing. Im considering moving away because i feel so embarrased now to even go to the shop for groceries. Police won't do anything as theres no actually evidence of threat by sending me a message saying haha or that any of this was him. Its basically He said , she said . They told me to block his number . I think the matter has been escalated as my father knows his boss quite well , they would talk often, grew up together. My dad , this man , daughter and i would often go on motorcycle rides and picnics when younger as his daughter is a year younger than me , and also a good friend. my dad told him all this other stuff because the boss has also been hearing rumours about me ( some from the horses mouth) at workplace and brought it up. now his boss said he won't tolerate that kinda behaviour from his employees and sacked him.
I feel now he's never going to let this go and its becoming pure revenge for him.
Can he legally make me do a dna test on the baby or dispute it if another man is on certificate? I just want to enjoy the time with my first born child. I don't want to have any of this hanging over our heads. I feel like it's ruining what should be the most special time in my life , all I'm thinking about is am I going to have to deal with courts and legal situations