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AIBU - With this new data on obesity and the NHS is it time to have some honest and difficult conversations?

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IAmADancer · 18/05/2023 10:47

New data from a ‘landmark study’ has show that obesity costs the NHS around 14billion a year and that 2 out of 3 adults are obese.

I know this is a difficult subject but the numbers are pretty clear. With the cost of living crisis and a general requirement for both parents to work now to support themselves how do we support people to make the right choices and tackle a growing problem?

Im really interested to hear people’s opinions on what we can do with such stark figures laid bare.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/17/cost-of-obesity-twice-those-who-are-healthy-nhs/

Massive cost of obesity to NHS revealed

Heaviest patients require spending of £1,400 a year, twice the total for those of healthy weight

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/17/cost-of-obesity-twice-those-who-are-healthy-nhs/

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Shortbread49 · 18/05/2023 13:28

I work in medical research there is a fair amount of literature about the inadequacy of BMI as an indicator due to not accounting for body shape, build or percentage of body fat

SOBplus · 18/05/2023 13:29

BMI is a scientifically acknowledge bad measure of weight and obesity; it is useful on when fat is too low but terrible for high weight - there are many many better measures but its commonly used as its simplistic. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Dwayne Johnson, etc are "obese" according to BMI.

dumple · 18/05/2023 13:29

midgemadgemodge · 18/05/2023 13:28

Just because for you medication can explain it away that is not the case for the vast majority
This isn't about you
It's about society and it's problem and what it costs society

I said " at an individual level"

SkandiSkando · 18/05/2023 13:29

Fudgewomble · 18/05/2023 13:20

Picking up on the PP who said it has become culturally acceptable to eat crap, eat too much and put on weight, I agree. The converse also applies: I live in a bubble of an affluent area of London. Not a single one of my female friends or acquaintances is overweight much less obese. I am a toned size 12 bmi 24 and I am easily the biggest woman in any room I walk into. My DC are at a private school with 1000 pupils. I have never seen an overweight mum at pick up or a school event. In my social circle it is culturally unacceptable to overeat or be overweight. I go out for coffee all the time and with friends and school mums. In 14 years no one has EVER ordered a slice of cake or biscuit with their coffee.

This is key. I bet they’re ordering black coffees or herbals teas too, not mochas with all the extras.

MindIfISlytherin · 18/05/2023 13:30

I went to a talk the other day by a doctor working on a drug aimed at increasing feelings of satiety with minimal side effects and the preliminary results from Phase I testing are very positive. I think it's becoming clear that we need to treat obesity as an illness in its own right: we've tried telling people they're too fat and we've tried telling people it's okay to be fat, but our society is getting bigger, and I think we need to start accepting it's okay for this to be medically managed. Yes it will cost the NHS money to give people weight loss drugs but it will cost them far less overall if we can decrease cardiovascular admissions and the incidence of Type II diabetes, for example.

Dangeliss · 18/05/2023 13:30

I went from significantly overweight to a healthy size for my height despite having a painful joint condition, PCOS, and being from a family of overweight people.

I did it by making adult decisions about my food and activity habits, because I'm a grown-up, adult individual. I didn't sit around waiting for "society to fix itself" and moaning. Well, I initially did, but I got better.

The most important thing for me was de-programming myself from myths like "starvation mode" and "fat genes", and the idea that losing weight is impossible because x y z. It's like a dangerous cult.

ApplesandOrangesandPears · 18/05/2023 13:30

SparklyBlackKitten · 18/05/2023 13:24

A lot of excuses to be overweight on this thread....

Excuses or reasons that need to be addressed? I'm not overweight myself (although I could lose a few lbs but my BMI is healthy) however I do have a lot of empathy for people who struggle whether that's financially, time-wise, emotionally, health-wise or any other struggles that might make it more difficult for them to lose weight than another person. I also don't think any change is going to happen by berating and judging those who are finding it difficult either.

Dinoflaw · 18/05/2023 13:31

Plantymcplantface · 18/05/2023 13:14

@Windflower92 has it for me. I am very obese. This is my problem, and nobody else’s - nobody forces me to eat or drink. And the reasons I do are complicated and mine to unpick and deal with. Sure, there are things that would help (safe cycle tracks and more easily available healthy “fast” foods for example). But ultimately it will be me and my family that suffers if I don’t take action to become healthier. Which I am doing.

It does affect others as well we it puts additional strain on the health service.

Taperjeanwoman · 18/05/2023 13:31

@dumple some healthy food doesn't require prepping. I'm also ASD and I can't abide some food. I'm on steroids too.

But then I have support from my consultants and I'm guessing you don't which is awful.

Kendodd · 18/05/2023 13:31

I wonder if this would actually save any money though, if that's the aim? Obese people die sooner, they don't receive pensions for decades or live in expensive care homes for years.

Ethny · 18/05/2023 13:31

I think developing public transport/cycling routes is the key. People spend too much time in their cars. I think the whole lifestyle where you use your car every time you need to get anywhere and then rely on occasional gym to keep you fit is completely unhealthy. People need to walk daily. Even more, more people on streets make neighbourhoods safer and boost local businesses.

Dangeliss · 18/05/2023 13:32

SOBplus · 18/05/2023 13:29

BMI is a scientifically acknowledge bad measure of weight and obesity; it is useful on when fat is too low but terrible for high weight - there are many many better measures but its commonly used as its simplistic. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Dwayne Johnson, etc are "obese" according to BMI.

It's a very useful indicator for most people. Just because it doesn't do a good job of measuring outliers doesn't mean it's bullshit for typical people.

nopuppiesallowed · 18/05/2023 13:32

I'm coeliac, and gluten free bread and gluten free cakes are stuffed with fat and sugar. I keep myself from eating much of either as my cholesterol levels are already high (hereditary), I'm post menopausal and Long Covid fatigue has now put an end to the long walks I ised to do. I want to look as good as I can for as long as I can, so I'm incredibly careful with my diet. It's a lifestyle choice for me.

NooNooHead1981 · 18/05/2023 13:33

MindIfISlytherin · 18/05/2023 13:30

I went to a talk the other day by a doctor working on a drug aimed at increasing feelings of satiety with minimal side effects and the preliminary results from Phase I testing are very positive. I think it's becoming clear that we need to treat obesity as an illness in its own right: we've tried telling people they're too fat and we've tried telling people it's okay to be fat, but our society is getting bigger, and I think we need to start accepting it's okay for this to be medically managed. Yes it will cost the NHS money to give people weight loss drugs but it will cost them far less overall if we can decrease cardiovascular admissions and the incidence of Type II diabetes, for example.

Why should we medically manage people who have brought upon their own health issues? We are perpetuating the problem by "medicalising" it and avoiding the root cause ie overeating and lack of exercise/good lifestyle choices.

I'm not including the people here who are obese owing to medication. But to say "let's give everyone surgery to help weight loss" or give them this pill, is saying it's ok not to own your choices for the consequences of your poor lifestyle.

SOBplus · 18/05/2023 13:33

It's a very useful indicator for most people. Just because it doesn't do a good job of measuring outliers doesn't mean it's bullshit for typical people.

Its not though, and it is good for low fat level outliers, its crap and has been by-passed by all but the insurance industry due to its inadequacies.

Snowatfoxcottage · 18/05/2023 13:34

SparklyBlackKitten · 18/05/2023 13:24

A lot of excuses to be overweight on this thread....

No excuses needed. Everyone is free to make their own choices in life.

chaosmaker · 18/05/2023 13:34

dumple · 18/05/2023 11:54

But I'm the obese example. I'm doing as much as I can and I'm doing exactly what the hospital tell me to.

What more can I do? I'm a statistic. Except. All of the statistics are actual people and this sort of thread comes up on here regularly and it's really upsetting. Fat lazy and eat fast food and guzzle coke. Except I don't.

Did you ever think that the dieticians advice may not be right for you?

Recommended reading - The Obesity Code by Dr Jason Fung, The Ketogenic Bible by Dr Jacob Wilson & Ryan Lowery PhD, The 800 Calorie Blood Sugar Diet and The Clever Guts Diet both by Dr Michael Moseley. All are great for how the body uses the fuel it is given. I have to reread all of these and get back on track but it is easier said than done.

If you look at who makes the decisions on the 'eatwell plate', it is a load of food companies who obviously have vested interests.

LolaSmiles · 18/05/2023 13:35

BMI is a scientifically acknowledge bad measure of weight and obesity; it is useful on when fat is too low but terrible for high weight - there are many many better measures but its commonly used as its simplistic. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Dwayne Johnson, etc are "obese" according to BMI

This always gets trotted out, a bit like "but technically some athletes are obese according to BMI". It happens on every thread about weight.

BMI isn't perfect, but more people are overweight and more people are obese. Overweight is quite a wide window so by the time someone is in the obese category they're either an outlier with lots of muscle, or they're carrying lots of additional weight. Let's be honest most obese people are not built like athletes who follow nutrition plans and have intense training programmes.

NooNooHead1981 · 18/05/2023 13:35

Dangeliss · 18/05/2023 13:30

I went from significantly overweight to a healthy size for my height despite having a painful joint condition, PCOS, and being from a family of overweight people.

I did it by making adult decisions about my food and activity habits, because I'm a grown-up, adult individual. I didn't sit around waiting for "society to fix itself" and moaning. Well, I initially did, but I got better.

The most important thing for me was de-programming myself from myths like "starvation mode" and "fat genes", and the idea that losing weight is impossible because x y z. It's like a dangerous cult.

Exactly. People such as you are the example of how taking control of your health is the key. We need more of you to set an example of what maturity towards health issues can achieve.

Ilkleymoor · 18/05/2023 13:35

Exhaustion is part of it - I never gained weight until I had a baby. This baby did not sleep. I was eating fat, sugar, carbs in order to function at a basic level. Once they started sleeping, I lost almost a stone without even trying because I didn't need something to get me through.

Prior to experiencing this myself I wouldn't have understood or would frankly have been judgey.

I also think it's mental health - people self Medicate with drugs, drink, sex but also food.

Dangeliss · 18/05/2023 13:36

SparklyBlackKitten · 18/05/2023 13:24

A lot of excuses to be overweight on this thread....

I don't see it as excuses, I see it as denial of personal responsibility. I speak as someone who used to blame 'society' for my being overweight until I realised I was the only member of society buying my food.

Bananarepublic · 18/05/2023 13:37

thebellagio · 18/05/2023 11:04

But obesity isn't that simple.

I've been a gym goer for 20+ years. Literally 4-5 times a week, lifting weights, cardio, pilates etc. My average daily step take according to my fitbit is 15,000 steps.

Pre-covid, I spent a year working out with a PT who also had nutrition expertise. I was seriously strong and fit and healthy, but my weight put my in the 'obese' category. I needed to lose about a stone to a stone and a half. No matter what we did, I literally couldn't lose weight. I came off the pill to see if that made a difference (it didn't). For an entire year, we tracked my macros and micros and monitored literally everything I ate. I had a whole spreadsheet (devised by my PT), that tracked all inputs/outputs and nothing.

I went to the doctor, and said that I had all this data that showed what movement I was doing. They sent me for blood tests, all of which came back clear. The GP then referred me to the hormone clinic at the hospital, saying that they felt that there was something clearly strange because on paper, I was doing everything "right" but nothing was working.

You want to know what the hospital's response was? "Well, her bloods are clear so you should tell your patient to try doing some exercise once in a while". I remember the nurse apologising to me, saying she couldn't believe that was their comeback.

Now, I've probably put more weight on. I'm still doing 12-15k steps a day, working out a lot. I burn around 2,600 cals per day, but only eat 1300-1400 cals a day but still cannot lose weight.

Yet I know that the doctors will ignore me if I say its a problem.

Have you looked into your gut biome? There is some evidence that unbalanced gut bacteria can affect weight gain. It may also be worth going on an anti-candida diet as well.

FatCatBum · 18/05/2023 13:37

IAmADancer · 18/05/2023 11:24

After struggling myself with weight in the last few years and it stubbornly not moving even with only eating 1200cals and everything I thought was right, I did Zoe project testing. It’s been eye opening and I have significantly changed my diet in the last month since getting my results.

I am eating on average 2500-3000cals a day and I have lost weight. I have cut out refined carbs and instead have pulses and beans, hardly any fruit but more veg, lots of nuts, dark chocolate, eggs, protein etc. I feel healthier now than I have in a while.

As I said up thread, we have been told for years and years you need to need restrict calories and exercise. Turns out exercising doesn’t help you lose weight, although it is good for your health. What we put in our bodies is what makes the difference.

Now I know that not everyone can afford to pay for the testing on Zoe project, although in the longer term I would love for the nhs to adopt this as it think it would be a game changer. But there is so much information out there now to help people understand this research and try their own version on the diet. The Zoe podcast is brilliant, you can gain so much from just listening to that.

Thanks for this, I have struggled with my weight for YEARS and tried everything without success, so you have inspired me to sign up for the next release

Ailsamary · 18/05/2023 13:37

dumple · 18/05/2023 10:48

I'm obese but I'm disabled and my weight gain is due to the drugs I take to manage my conditions.

What would you suggest is done in my case?

Same here, when I managed to come of them for while the weight fell of

CampsieGlamper · 18/05/2023 13:37

SOBplus · 18/05/2023 13:29

BMI is a scientifically acknowledge bad measure of weight and obesity; it is useful on when fat is too low but terrible for high weight - there are many many better measures but its commonly used as its simplistic. Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Dwayne Johnson, etc are "obese" according to BMI.

Devised by the insurance sector not clinical.

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