Bit of context we have 3 young children (Ds 6 Dt -twins 2) DP works away Mon-Fri, I have 2 jobs equaling working FT.
DP took eldest 6 out last night, late night for a school night as a special treat and were home about 10pm. DP comes home in the week to cover me working a 2nd job in the evenings but will rarely come home otherwise (unless for a social events for himself) he took DS out and they would be home late for a school night. I asked if he would be able to stay home in the morning to help get DS to school, whilst I get myself ready to get to office and get DT ready for nursery- knowing DS will be tired and having to get all 3 and myself out in the morning is often a struggle at the best of times.
He’s point blank refused saying it’s ‘my responsibility’ and questioning ’if I’ll manage’ getting DS to school as it is ‘my job and I do it everyday’. I pushed back saying I would be fine as I often do it - I don’t always have to be in the office so not always such a rush and that I was only asking. He has got in a mood, slamming doors, saying he won’t do it as it’s an ‘important day’ for him. But nothing he couldn’t have foreseen and every day seems to be an ‘important day’.
AIBU to kind of expect that he would help out in the week if our ‘routine’ is going to be put out due to his plans?