Ok- so this thread has got far too long to read the full thread- sorry. However, mumsnet's obsession with Russell Group Uni is totally out of proportion to real life. And I have attended 2 (I have since learnt) because I am fortunate to be old enough when that was possible due to not having to consider the costs (£3000 fees brought in when I went the second time) and this bollox did not seem to exist. I liked the course, I liked the Uni and the cities they were in. Parents were vaguely proud (dad was a Durham and Oxford alumni) but was just left to get in with it.
And then went to Uni a third time (I know) - not an ex poly, but somewhere far down the list of prestigious universities but very highly regarded for my course- which has now been my career for many years. It was also highly regarded such as pharmacy, dentistry etc. and has been world leaders in a particularly niche area for decades. It is an area with many home students for complex reasons but was exceptional and my best experience by far.
As an undergraduate, many Russel group ratings are pointless unless your future is academia, politics or a way into a few select careers which are more about who you know rather than what you know (which also covers politics really). There is huge snobbery around red brick universities and ex polytechnics but in many areas they are considered far superior in providing courses that prepare their students for the industry they want to work in. This is because they always have provided these courses and have the right lecurers, work placements and connections.
I think a lot of people, in various professions, will know some buffoon not fit for the job but has somehow worked their way in due to out-dated concepts. Going to a certain university does not mean they are 'top drawer', many have learnt unshakable confidence through their schooling/uni which means in interview they over deliver or in some industries they just know the right people. Absolutely the recruitment process should be 'university blind', alongside age, race, sex etc. There has been so much research for so long into the bias shown in job selection it is crazy that this is still something people object to. There is no reason someone who has been to elite university would not get a job if they meet the criteria and the most suitable person for the job. Expecting to be favoured a job because you went to a certain university.....