Not sure if DH is being an inconsiderate git or if I am just being hormonal and overreacting here.....
I am pregnant and fed up (due yesterday). I am sooo uncomfortable, it hurts just to walk and I am really struggling with looking after DS (2 years).
DH knows I am feeling crappy, he knows I am not sleeping well and am exhausted.
He commutes to London for work, so it takes him 2 hours min to get home and he works long hours (leaves 7am ish and back about 8pm ish usually).
He normally plays football after work on a Monday. Last week I suggested that he give it a miss this week, partly because of being nervous of not being able to contact him while he is playing with him being so far away and it being my due date (DS was 2 weeks early), but mostly because I could just do with having him home earlier in the evening while I am so close to having baby and am so fed up and uncomfortable. He agreed.
Last night at 5pm I called him to see what time he was likely to be back so I knew what to do about dinner. He said he was still busy working and didnt know, and I should probably eat with DS to be on safe side. Fair enough, I ate with DS and did all bath time, bed time etc on my own.
Got to 8pm, still hadnt heard from DH so called again and he was only just leaving work. Was a bit that he was only just leaving work and hadnt bothered to call, but said 'ok, not to worry, although I'll most likely be in bed when you get back now as i'm so tired'
I went to bed and then DS had a nightmare and was up at midnight crying (he doesnt normally wake up at night) and I realised that DH wasnt home yet!! I managed to settle DS again eventually (in my bed, he wouldnt go in his own and I was too tired to insist) and stayed awake quietly fuming until DH got back at past 1am!
He said that after he spoke to me on the phone earlier he'd then phoned a friend who was was working late too and they'd decided to go for a couple of drinks. Seeing as I was going to bed he didnt see any point in him rushing home!!
He thinks I am being unreasonable in being so annoyed at him because he wasnt to know that DS would wake up and he 'only' had a couple of drinks.
I'm furious and had tears and all sorts (mostly because I am tired and uncomfortable I expect) and didnt get back to sleep for over 2 hours because I was so annoyed.
I just feel that if he can leave work on time every Monday to make it to his bloody football practice, then he should make the effort to leave on time to get home and help me out when he says he will!! He says that he is going to have to take time off soon when baby is born so needs to do what work is required now seeing as his work have been nice enough to give him a week paternity leave on full pay when he only started there just before xmas.
.....AIBU?