GoodTimesforaChangeSeetheLifeIveHad ·
16/05/2023 23:51
Hi all
I’m feeling very nervous about birth coming up in about three weeks now…we really struggled to have this baby, it took 5 years, miscarriage and two cycles of IVF. Now we are nearly here I’m worried we could lose her.
I have a son who is 10, when he was born we both had infections. Everything is a blur now, I can’t remember what kind of infection though I am going to ask the midwife next time I see her if they’ve kept the records. I had a temperature, it was an induction and membranes were ruptured about a day before he came out, long labour. He was born not breathing and blue and needed to be resuscitated. We were in for five days on IV antibiotic and he needed a lumber puncture due to suspected meningitis which was very scary and upsetting. The doctor confirmed his infection markers were up after two days of antibiotics but they finally went down at 5 days.
I’ve been recommended to have an induction again due to IVF pregnancy, I’m fine with that but I’m so scared about infection…is there anything I can do to prevent it? Can I ask for IV antibiotics during birth so that baby doesn’t get an infection? I’m really scared the same thing will happen again if not worse. I am very grateful that my son got the antibiotics he needed so quickly as it could have been so much worse. But I just want to do anything I can to prevent infection and the same thing from happening again….
Does anyone have a similar first birth experience and different outcome for second birth?