My daughter is ill, had diarrhoea and then during another episode of diarrhoea she was sick. I'm not good with sick so her dad helped to clean her up, after that was sorted, daughter was settled and had some water etc, I asked if he'd washed his hands, he'd wiped her bum after the diarrhoea and emptied the jug she was sick into, he said no, and basically said he wasn't going too as he had been too busy helping her? And that I should be grateful he helped instead of asking him questions like this.. I'm not good with sick I have a phobia so am obviously trying to limit the amount of people that end up catching this, I've bleached the bathroom but if he's walking around touching things in the house with his unwashed hands I might as well not bother, he then walked into the kitchen washed his hands for about 2 seconds then walked out.
He's now trying to say that any other person would be more bothered about their child than if the person who'd cleaned them up had washed their hands, my point is that I knew my child was fine, she was settled on the sofa eating a pear at the time I asked him fgs. Aibu for asking him to wash his hands?