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hearing aids and school support

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mumofteenss · 15/05/2023 10:33

My 14 year old DD has been given hearing aids, its been a long road of infections and referrals resulting in a moderate hearing loss diagnoses. Up until now i have been telling school she is under investigation with audiology and ENT and asked them to ensure she is sat near the front and away from distraction noises. School have basically dismissed concerns as nothing, and not put into place any adaptions for her. Now she has the aids, the audiology dept have done a referral to educational support to ensure school are doing enough to help her, however, im not sure how long this will take. In the mean time, i have again, asked, that school take this seriously, but they arent. She is still sat near kids that make alot of background noise, at the back of the classroom, with the aids it is now even more difficult for her as everything louder, and its taking her a lot to get used to them, so causing her to take them out when it becomes overwhelming.

AIBU to expect the school to adapt to a child who has been given aid on the NHS, has this referral, has hard undeniable evidence of a difficulty?

Other than moving her in the classroom to where she is more comfortable, is there anything else you would be asking of the school as a parent?

The other issue i have is them dismissing other children commenting on them and laughing, they basically say "yes she has hearing aids, its not a big deal" and try to move on the conversation, however, with teens, this doesn't work. I feel they need addressing more seriously, and being told any form of negative commenting is bullying and will not be tolerated, not just dismissing the comments?

As aside note, any who has, or has a child, teenager specifically, with hearing aids, how long did it take to adapt to having them, and get used to them? And any other advice that can be offered to me as a parent of a teen with them (over ear as i cant afford inner ear hidden ones at the minute)

Thanks.

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vipersnest1 · 16/05/2023 00:09

TrashyPanda · 15/05/2023 23:44

People often don't realise the impact that even a mild hearing loss has on an individual.Hearing aids do not restore hearing in the way a pair of glasses would for a visual issue

this is a really important point, that most people who do not have hearing loss don’t realise. Hearing aids amplify sound, but that can mean being in a noisy, echoing room is almost unbearable and overwhelming as it is impossible to focus in on what the person next to you is saying.

Hearing loss really has a significant impact on your life. i was diagnosed with tinnitus and hearing loss in my mid 50s and wear hearing aids. The number of adults who make a “joke” when I tell them is disturbing. I have no compunction in telling them how pathetic this is, but I fully appreciate your DD probably won’t want to do this!

the school need to acknowledge your DD has a disability and make reasonable adjustments to allow her to access lessons. Hearing loss can make people feel very isolated

sending her my best wishes.

That's not quite true, although I realise that the proportion of people who realise what it means is small.
My DC2 once mentioned when we were in the cinema (and I had complained to them that there was a double image) said that they could see perfectly well.
It's very much a case of each individuals' circumstances - and vey likely the proportion of the population is small, but I for one understand.

Un7breakable · 16/05/2023 06:26

Look into applying for an EHCP.

The National Deaf Children's Society has lots of resources that you can use to get your point across to the school and training for staff.

Your area should have a specialist teacher for the deaf who can speak to the school. Contact your local education authority.

100% she should be sat in the front and teachers should make sure they are facing her to lipread. Subtitles should be used on videos and where possible notes provided so she doesn't have to listen and write at the same time.

Noisy classrooms are harder to deal with and she may need to turn off her hearing aid in very noisy environments.

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