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Advice about new dog

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Senzi · 12/05/2023 18:53

our family recently adopted a rescue dog, a young lab / Vizzler cross. We also have an older lab (age 10), this was one of the conditions of the adoption as the new dog would need another dog to live with for reassurance.

we have had the new dog for 6 months and he seems happy and settled in our home. He’s very much loved and part of the family.

he’s very insecure and follows our other dog everywhere and cries if for example our other dog has gone into another room and he can’t find him straight away.

he’s toilet trained which is great but he eats everything in sight. I think he was not treated well and neglected as a pup.

he has eaten our skirting boards, numerous shoes, gloves, hats, clothing, remote controls, Venetian blinds, pillows, cushions, the washing basket, loaves of bread (he opened the pantry door with his nose and paws) etc.

we obviously try and keep things out of sight but he always manages to find something. He has a lot of chewable toys - kongs, antler horns, chew sticks etc. he is well fed and exercised daily, he is not lonely DH WFH.

we got a crate but he howled and cried in so much distress I wasn’t comfortable using it as it’s quite possible he was abused and locked up and I of course don’t want to add to his trauma.

he has been to training classes and this was fine but of course doesn’t address the issue of him eating my house.

i wouldn’t consider re homing as that’s not fair on the dog or my youngest who has ASD and sees him as a therapy dog.

my home used to be tidy and maintained and now resembles something indescribable. DH regularly checks on him from his office (in the next room) but it always seems to be carnage (on a daily basis). We tried putting him in the office where DH works during the day but when his back was turned (he was on the phone so distracted) he was eating important documents off the desk and trying to chew the printer.

we love him so much but he’s so naughty 👿

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Dogsarebetterthanhumans · 12/05/2023 19:12

Get a good behaviourist in. Money well spent. All the best OP xx

ToHellBackAndBeyond · 12/05/2023 19:15

As well as a behaviourist, how about a play pen style enclosure with plenty of room rather than trying a crate again? That way he would have no access to things he ought not to but would still have a good amount of room?

STLLAP08 · 12/05/2023 19:17

Sounds a fairly severe case of separation anxiety. Won't go away you need professional advice

KarmaStar · 12/05/2023 19:34

Hi op maybe get more help on the pet pages?
Also there are many dog forums.does the charity you got him from not offer continued behavioural support?they should do as the last thing they want is dogs being taken back.
the dog has undergone trauma you don't know about and he can't tell you so this displacement behaviour comes out.
Training,distraction,praising good behaviour ..these are all things that will help.
also consider an animal communicator who will be able to tell you what gone on in his life and she or he can help you both.
he isn't doing it to be naughty and I'm so happy to read about how much you love him.🐾🐾🌈💖💐.
good luck and thank you for your patience with him.

hedgehoglurker · 12/05/2023 19:36

Our youngest rescue has been very similar. His stealing and chewing has reduced steadily as he gets more settled and a little older (recently turned 2yrs). He still sneaks the odd thing into the garden or a basket to chew in private.

Bread is a real favourite too, he'll bypass the raw meat in the grocery delivery to get to a bag of flour or loaf!

He has 2 dogs for company, and there are usually at least 2 people home with them, plus free access to all of the house and a doggy door to the enclosed garden. So in our case, I wouldn't have thought separation anxiety, but more likely associated with his previous neglect and probable abuse.

namechange3394 · 12/05/2023 19:59

You say he's not lonely because DH WFH, but then it sounds like you're shutting him in a different room from DH?

Have you taught him a "leave" command? DDog would nibble anything if I didn't tell her to leave it...

Senzi · 12/05/2023 20:00

Thanks everyone- some great advice. I know he probably can’t help it 😁 currently nuzzling & sleeping next to me on the sofa as if butter wouldn’t melt 🤣🤣

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