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To not get a poodle because I’ve just discovered they need their ears cleaned once a week?

116 replies

Hellomotto2 · 11/05/2023 20:10

Please be kind as I’m very torn and ultimately trying to make the most responsible decision!

DH and I are wanting to get a toy poodle, we’ve been doing so much research over the last year or so, and I’m even changing jobs to be able to accommodate getting a dog (DH is able to wfh more than me), all the reading so far indicates that a toy poodle would be an ideal bread for us as we live in a small flat and then temperament etc feels like it would really suit us too, not to mention I’ve met so many on my travels and they are always adorable. I understand it’s gonna be hard work for the first year, the training, the late nights, the yapping etc and it’s took us a while to make sure we understand what we are getting ourselves in for! So I thought I was ready to make the step to start contacting breeders and generally starting to look for our wee guy, when the other day I read that poodles (as well as other breeds with drop ears) need their ears cleaned out once a week!!

Apparently they are prone to ear infections if not cleaned and they give off brown gunk and it’s a very messy job! I’d just about gotten used to the idea of picking up poo and made peace with that lol! But once a week for a messy job? I think I’d be too squeamish for that and worry about the mess in the small flat and the fact it’s so frequent. It’s making me really sad as it’s making me think we won’t be able to get one after all (at least while we are still in this small flat) I was thinking it would be more like a once a month thing, and I could get help with it at the groomers! AIBU? Are there any poodle or drop-earred dogs that live in a flat that could shed some light on this? Is it really as big deal as the internet is making out? Thanks!

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wtfisgoingonhere21 · 11/05/2023 20:44

Christ I can't believe I've just read this Confused

Cleaning dogs ears will be one of the least things to make an owner squeamish op.

wildinthecountry · 11/05/2023 20:49

On a side note , what on earth attracts people who don't like dogs to threads about dogs Confused .

Welshy26 · 11/05/2023 20:49

I have a toy poodle. She is 9 years old. I have never cleaned her ears out. She gets groomed every 10 weeks and it gets done then. She has no ear problems.

Maverickess · 11/05/2023 20:51

I've got a Spaniel that are renowned for ear infections apparently, I check her ears regularly and especially after swimming/getting wet and they're usually fine, or they need a wipe round with a tissue.
I had a dog with very manky ears and she even had operations but even then the vet said unless there's a stink, they're digging at them/rubbing at them/dropping one or you can see discharge when you check them then leave well alone.

As others have said there's far more disgusting things that you need to clean up than ears. Looking at you Maver-JRT and your regurgitated dead whatever it was a couple of weeks ago and the associated vet bill incase it was going to kill you 🤦 (and that was just what she managed to swallow before I grabbed her collar).

Doyouthinktheyknow · 11/05/2023 20:52

I don’t have a dog, have a long haired cat but ear cleaning will almost certainly be the least of your worries🤣

You will have poo issues, wee issues, you name it, you will do it because you love them and they quickly become your world.

Dcat gets crap stuck in her bum floof and I don’t even think twice now about sorting her out! Even DH who was a reluctant cat owner doesn’t bother! We are quite the team now, Dcat barely has time to think about it! You will do anything for your beloved pet!

Cosyblankets · 11/05/2023 20:55

One of mine rolled in dead fish once.
That was great fun.

Missingmyusername · 11/05/2023 20:55
Dog Smile GIF by Bachelor in Paradise

I hate to break it to you, but dogs need their ears cleaned.
My Labrador has had awful infections caused by swimming in rivers and an over enthusiastic groomer, £700 and £400 respectively.

I think you may need …. 😂

Thorinfling · 11/05/2023 20:57

Has nobody mentioned leaky anal glands yet? Grin
Our poodle cross has never had any probs with his ears, they always seem to be beautifully pink and clean!

It's the rest of him that's the problem. He had a tummy bug not long ago and I had to hold his ears back while he puked in the garden. Took me right back to my Uni days GinGrin

Caiti19 · 11/05/2023 20:59

Not meaning to derail the thread, but I have a general question for lovers of specific breeds of dogs. It's a current topic for me as a friend has just bought a pup of a specific breed. This breed lives an average of 8 years, and is prone to cancer, hip dysplasia, and heart disease. My parents mongrel dog lived a totally healthy life until he died of old age at 18 years old. In humans, inbreeding is considered unacceptable. Why do we humans pay thousands for pure bred dogs when we know their purebred status means they will come with a plethora of health issues more often than not? This is a genuine question. Why don't breeders get more money for dogs that look cute but are a cross breed, therefore making them a hardier dog where the buyer is getting many more years of dog life? I don't get it!

QuintanaRoo · 11/05/2023 21:02

I have a spaniel and never cleaned her ears out, they look clean and no infections.

DanceMonster · 11/05/2023 21:03

We had a different drop ear breed. We cleaned his ears approx once a month. It took a few minutes, and was certainly no more messy than anything else dog related. If something like that puts you off, I’m not sure dog ownership is for you. Pets are messy.

DanceMonster · 11/05/2023 21:04

And I agree, leaky anal glands are far more disgusting than grubby ears!

Munchyseeds2 · 11/05/2023 21:06

We had one that did the rolling in a dead fish once - it took a few good baths to get rid of that aroma I can tell you!!

Are you sure dog ownership is really for you OP?

magicstar1 · 11/05/2023 21:08

ModerationInEverything · 11/05/2023 20:20

We just use a tiny pinch of thornit powder every few weeks.

Do you find thornit powder good? Have you ever tried it on itchy paws?

JandalsAlways · 11/05/2023 21:10

Sissynova · 11/05/2023 20:13

Honestly if a small care job once a week makes you question getting a dog then the obvious answer is no, you shouldn’t get one.
There will be much messier things than just cleaning ears.

Thought this exactly. Please don't get a dog.

ModerationInEverything · 11/05/2023 21:12

magicstar1 · 11/05/2023 21:08

Do you find thornit powder good? Have you ever tried it on itchy paws?

Yes it's great. If his ears ever feel a bit warm and he sees me get the bottle he just lies down to go I've suffer, then rolls over. Even the dog knows it works 😂
I haven't tried it on itchy paws though.

Calzonepizza · 11/05/2023 21:17

Poodles are a v hardy breed, can live to 18, mine is nearly 10 and she is still like a puppy

namechange3394 · 11/05/2023 21:19

Sissynova · 11/05/2023 20:13

Honestly if a small care job once a week makes you question getting a dog then the obvious answer is no, you shouldn’t get one.
There will be much messier things than just cleaning ears.

This, sorry

DustyLee123 · 11/05/2023 21:20

Poodles need their ears plucking as they don’t drop their hair. Are you going to do that ?

FFF3 · 11/05/2023 21:20

My mother had a toy poodle who was exceptionally neurotic and had terrible separation anxiety. She had a behaviourist / training etc but not much could be done. The yapping and total inability to leave the house would make me actively avoid the breed.

Panpastels · 11/05/2023 21:20

Thornit powder is great. My dog is half spaniel and he is prone to manky ears but this always sorts them out.

Twilight7777 · 11/05/2023 21:22

I have a toy poodle and I don’t think I’ve ever cleaned her ears. Her groomer does it every 5 weeks.

ChattermaxFromBluey · 11/05/2023 21:22

If you’re squeamish I’d suggest not getting a dog. Though you might end up becoming more comfortable with some of the tasks over time.

but the things I’ve seen… the things I’ve had to clean up. Dogs are not for the faint hearted 😆

DustyLee123 · 11/05/2023 21:25

Toy poodles are full of energy and very, very clever. I’d not get one to live in a flat.

loislovesstewie · 11/05/2023 21:31

Mine ate a very dead hedgehog! We saw that twice, once when he was eating it, the second time when he vomited it all over the carpet. He also likes dead (very dead) fish, the odd kebab that a drunk has left on the beach and a good roll in horse shit. He looks really happy after a good roll, sadly his family aren't
Please don't get a dog, ears are the least of it.