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AIBU?

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To think dr was wrong?

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lucie333 · 10/05/2023 22:12

My son who is 3.5 came home from nursery with a temp, crying in pain whenever he tried to pee, he was ago sick when he got home had a temp of 39.5 & very lethargic- never seen him to unwell actually. I took him to dr who requested we did a urine sample- I tried my best but he was crying in too much pain he just couldn't do it, he then examined him and his boy parts seemed okay, no signs of infection or anything like that. He told me to go him and give him regular calpol, I said I wasn't happy to get sent home with nothing as I'm positive he has urine infection but he said it's too early to tell, he also said he can't prescribe without pee sample and I asked if it was possible to get sent to hospital for them to do one and he said it wasn't necessary, I trusted his word and left... I'm now thinking that possibly wasn't the right thing to do. I tried my best to get him to pee for me when we got home but he was crying saying please no mummy😢 he eventually let one out when he was in the bath ( yuck I know but it seemed more comfortable for him)

I guess my question is, was the dr right with not prescribing antibiotics?

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Ponoka7 · 12/05/2023 00:36

Itchyfleet · 10/05/2023 22:21

Antibiotics are still ridiculously over prescribed.
We now have several multi resistant strains of bacteria that cause significant morbidity and death and this is compounded by over use.

How recent have these strains emerged and is this in the UK? The issue I have is I've known lots of people, including children to need hospital stays when antibiotics at the start would have cleared what they had up. Across Europe, the US and Africa you can buy antibiotics over the counter. I know that it's easy to get them in Thailand. I won't quote China and Japan because I know nothing about them. Then there's the antibiotic resistance caused by animal farming. The thing is with hospital admissions the patient ends up on stronger antibiotics for longer. The UK's prescribing of antibiotics makes little, if any difference.

Babyimyours · 12/05/2023 20:50

lucie333 · 11/05/2023 12:19

update

Managed to get a urine sample, he's telling me he still doesn't feel well, he's still got a temp, he has had 2x doses of antibiotics & calpol. He's sleeping just now, 1 million things running through my head right now. Should I take him to dr again?

How is he doing now?
Please take him to A&E if he still hasn’t peed and has a fever and is listless. Better to be safe than sorry

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