bith Have never made any effort with me or our kids. I used to send birthday cards to his sisters and the kids every year then I stopped, when I had a girl they made do many sexist remarks of how unlucky I was (culturally boys preferred). They also as I made horrible comments if we were back in our home country we could easily have gotten “rid” of our daughter without any issues! That is just the top of the iceberg. They have made so many other hurtful comments. DH btw always remained silent and MIL refused her daughters would say that and called me a liar (DH could have backed me up as he was there but his response was “why do u always want to be right? Ignore it we know the truth).
After 7 years of this I completely stopped talking to them. Funny thing is the incident that led to to me stop talking was on my sons birthday they completely ignored me and my kids and that’s the moment I thought “fuck it” I haven’t spoken to them for 4 years now. This has caused conflict with DH and myself. I refuse up have them at kids parties as they make remarks and bitch about people.
we moved into our new home and DH has said I’m not allowed any family or friends (not that I have any due to the depression these bastard have caused me) to come over unless his sisters visit first. On my birthday my sisters and I met up in a Restarant and he stormed off saying “you would never sit around chatting with my sisters would you?”. I feel like I’m living in a demented world, has he not seen what they did to me and my kids?
how to move past this and live my life? He won’t let me be happy till I make up with his sisters. My family will never see our new home till he lets them and his condition is I make up with them. Please no LTB If it was that easy I found have already and not posted here!