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angry at DM

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CharliesAngels2 · 07/05/2023 16:48

Am I being unreasonable to be angry at DM.

I have had a multitude of issues with DM growing up, one of which resulting in the police being called on me in 2019. and the thread to that is actually posted on here.

it's at this point now, after reading that, and recently how she's treated me(blocked me because I'm apparently "entitled" and doesn't want to speak to me for a month), that I'm at wits end with DM and frankly I just don't want anything to do with her.

I have always appreciated everything she did for me, because when she was there for me she was fantastic. however she seemed to be more of a "throw money at the problem" instead of help.

it was DM's birthday yesterday and she still has me blocked. but it made me come on here and read her threads about me, to which I'm quite shocked that a) quite a few of the things she's said are lies and b) that most PP's have stood up for me! so thank you.

if you've read this far, give yourself a pat on the back! but yes, AIBU to want nothing to do with her anymore due to childhood trauma that I can't get over?

OP posts:
GoodChat · 07/05/2023 16:52

YANBU. Cutting contact because of childhood trauma mine refused to accept responsibility for was the best decision I ever made.

ChangedForEmbarrassingQuestions · 07/05/2023 17:00

Are they definitely about you?

CharliesAngels2 · 07/05/2023 17:09

@ChangedForEmbarrassingQuestions yes they are, she told me her username years ago and I remembered it. plus she only has one child and she's described what happened, but not in the way it happened

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ChangedForEmbarrassingQuestions · 07/05/2023 17:16

CharliesAngels2 · 07/05/2023 17:09

@ChangedForEmbarrassingQuestions yes they are, she told me her username years ago and I remembered it. plus she only has one child and she's described what happened, but not in the way it happened

Ah okay. So don’t feel like you have to go out of your way for her as she clearly does not feel this way about you.

Do what you have to do to be peaceful. You’re not obliged to stay in contact with anyone, or to the level they want or anything like that.

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