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To think using horses the way the royals do needs to be stopped.

251 replies

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 10:31

The way their horses are used in ceremonies really isn't good. I don't expect everyone to get it, lots of people who don't know about horses just see it and think oh look how lovely, lots of riders don't see the issue. I don't find it comfortable watching horses some just under their threshold and a few over it.

I've had horses for years mostly rescues, I don't subscribe to the BHS way of thinking so I'm already labelled as 'odd' I find this sort of treatment of animals sad.

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wildfirewonder · 06/05/2023 13:06

Yanbu about the horses.

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:07

katmunchkin · 06/05/2023 12:50

Your farrier charges you £1000 a year?!

I don't shoe, so no, they charge me nothing.

Horses shod on average every 5 weeks at £100 a set. Do the maths.

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:09

usernother · 06/05/2023 12:49

You can't possibly know if they are being pushed above their threshold because you don't know the horses and you aren't physically there.

Experienced horse people can see very well that some of the horses there are stressed, nervous and on the brink of losing it.

katmunchkin · 06/05/2023 13:11

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:07

I don't shoe, so no, they charge me nothing.

Horses shod on average every 5 weeks at £100 a set. Do the maths.

No need for the attitude, it was a genuine question. Mine is shod every 8 weeks at £70 a time. Do the maths. And then wonder why I asked.

LatteOneShotplease · 06/05/2023 13:18

@WildFlowerBees

I have never touched a horse with a lunge whip. That's not the correct way - is it?

gwenneh · 06/05/2023 13:19

LatteOneShotplease · 06/05/2023 13:18

@WildFlowerBees

I have never touched a horse with a lunge whip. That's not the correct way - is it?

It definitely is not.

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:22

katmunchkin · 06/05/2023 13:11

No need for the attitude, it was a genuine question. Mine is shod every 8 weeks at £70 a time. Do the maths. And then wonder why I asked.

I did say roughly. Some horses go 4 weeks, some longer, so I went for 5 weeks. Some farriers charge £60 but I expect London prices and state horses will be more expensive. Round down a bit and it's still in the order of £200k a year just for the horses used today. There will be more left at home.

That said (and putting aside my personal views on shoeing), it does mean that farriers are earning a living and the money is circulating in the economy, so 🤷‍♀️

misssunshine4040 · 06/05/2023 13:22

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 10:52

The point is on average 1 horse has goes to 7 different homes. Most other domestic animals don't, most cars don't have 7 previous owners. My point is that horses are used as a commodity not all of course. Lots of people have a horse and have them for life (like me) I'm not sure you understood my post correctly. Maybe it was my wording.

Of course they are used as a commodity they always have been.
Those horses are representative of the horses used in war. They are treated impeccably and far better than your average livery horse.
Cows, pigs, sheep, horses have all been used for our convenience, they are not pets.

misssunshine4040 · 06/05/2023 13:23

wheresmymojo · 06/05/2023 13:05

I feel like there are much worse things that need to stop first - like horse racing for example.

Especially the Grand National.

Exactly

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 13:24

LatteOneShotplease · 06/05/2023 13:18

@WildFlowerBees

I have never touched a horse with a lunge whip. That's not the correct way - is it?

No, absolutely not. Sadly many do. Sending them off in circles because of the belief it creates some kind of connection.

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Catspyjamas17 · 06/05/2023 13:25

rickandmorts · 06/05/2023 11:40

Yanbu but you'll get people come along and say 'oh they're treated like kings and looked after so well'. No horse wants that life. They'd much rather be in a field living in a natural herd than stalls in the middle of London, put in stressful situations and with all that tack on them. Awful. They're living animals. I also think the same applies to police horses but that's a different conversation!

Let's not anthropomorphise about what animals "want".

Ylvamoon · 06/05/2023 13:29

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:09

Experienced horse people can see very well that some of the horses there are stressed, nervous and on the brink of losing it.

... but then, nothing bad happens.

You are over thinking this.

I believe your 7 homes for each horse comes from how useful a horse is to their owners plus the cost of keepingit. A sports horse past its peak isn't useful... a race horse gelding isnt useful once it's racing days are over... a small pony for a child isn't useful, once the child is to big ... gosh humans are awful creatures!

PhillySub · 06/05/2023 13:30

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 10:52

The point is on average 1 horse has goes to 7 different homes. Most other domestic animals don't, most cars don't have 7 previous owners. My point is that horses are used as a commodity not all of course. Lots of people have a horse and have them for life (like me) I'm not sure you understood my post correctly. Maybe it was my wording.

A lot of people eat them. I don't really get your point either.

WolfFoxHare · 06/05/2023 13:32

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:22

I did say roughly. Some horses go 4 weeks, some longer, so I went for 5 weeks. Some farriers charge £60 but I expect London prices and state horses will be more expensive. Round down a bit and it's still in the order of £200k a year just for the horses used today. There will be more left at home.

That said (and putting aside my personal views on shoeing), it does mean that farriers are earning a living and the money is circulating in the economy, so 🤷‍♀️

I’m almost positive they’ll have a couple of farriers on staff earning much less than £250k per year. They won’t be getting a farrier in at £100 a pop.

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 06/05/2023 13:34

Tarantullah · 06/05/2023 11:51

I'm not entirely sure of the point you're trying to make but sure I'll bite. Yes, vegetables that indeed start to deteriorate in quality as soon as they are picked I will eat. The bit that's vile about the other is that's its flesh, the rotting part is just an extra layer of grim. If you can't see the difference guessing the dissociation is strong for you.

I'd find it less weird if we still hunted food and ate it raw or prepared it ourselves, but what other animals are buying slabs of rotting animal carcass in shops?

You seemed to object to meat on the basis of it being "rotting". And our relatively modern habits of purchasing our food.

Vegetable and produce is also rotting. And yet you don't object to those.

No other species buys goods from stores and markets (whether that's rotting mushrooms. Or slabs of meat). And yet you presumably don't object to the purchase of mushrooms...

I personally honestly failed to see the relevance of your arguments. And I wanted to know whether I was missing something.
I suppose I was simply curious.

tenbob · 06/05/2023 13:36

Ohfgsjon · 06/05/2023 13:22

I did say roughly. Some horses go 4 weeks, some longer, so I went for 5 weeks. Some farriers charge £60 but I expect London prices and state horses will be more expensive. Round down a bit and it's still in the order of £200k a year just for the horses used today. There will be more left at home.

That said (and putting aside my personal views on shoeing), it does mean that farriers are earning a living and the money is circulating in the economy, so 🤷‍♀️

Do you think the Household Cavalry is calling in a farrier every few weeks?! 😂

They have their own farriers, it’s one of the roles in the regiment. They aren’t paying per set!

https://www.forces.net/animals/if-shoe-fits-how-army-farriers-keep-household-cavalry-horses-fit-and-healthy#:~:text=A%20small%20team%20of%20Household%20Cavalry%20farriers%20is%20responsible%20for,years%20(Picture%3A%20MOD).

If the shoe fits: How Army Farriers keep Household Cavalry horses fit and healthy

Household Cavalry Regiment and Royal Horse Artillery farriers take part in annual shoeing competition.

https://www.forces.net/animals/if-shoe-fits-how-army-farriers-keep-household-cavalry-horses-fit-and-healthy#:~:text=A%20small%20team%20of%20Household%20Cavalry%20farriers%20is%20responsible%20for,years%20(Picture%3A%20MOD).

Tarantullah · 06/05/2023 13:37

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 06/05/2023 13:34

I'd find it less weird if we still hunted food and ate it raw or prepared it ourselves, but what other animals are buying slabs of rotting animal carcass in shops?

You seemed to object to meat on the basis of it being "rotting". And our relatively modern habits of purchasing our food.

Vegetable and produce is also rotting. And yet you don't object to those.

No other species buys goods from stores and markets (whether that's rotting mushrooms. Or slabs of meat). And yet you presumably don't object to the purchase of mushrooms...

I personally honestly failed to see the relevance of your arguments. And I wanted to know whether I was missing something.
I suppose I was simply curious.

Rotting body parts are grim not sure what else to say.

ShamedBySiri · 06/05/2023 13:37

Here you are OP. Take a look at some of the cruelty and neglect that goes on in USA.
Idaho horse showing does some fantastic work with rescues who can hardly walk.

All the parade horses have pampered lives and are beautifully cared for. It's not as if they are ever going to have to go off to war and drag gun carriages through knee deep mud to the trenches. 🙄

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 13:38

My point is, they are sentient beings and should be treated with far better care and respect. Once a working dog is no longer 'useful' does the owner pass it on or euthanise? No. Understandably the cost of a horse is far more than a dog, however once you decide to have a horse more thought should be given to its lifetime.

Like I have said I work with rescues, I have seen so many that have been passed about from pillar to post and arrive with us carrying trauma. They are emotional beings and us humans are responsible for much of their suffering.

My point will always be lost on those who refuse to see or understand past 'it's got a job' and that is all.

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WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 13:39

ShamedBySiri · 06/05/2023 13:37

Here you are OP. Take a look at some of the cruelty and neglect that goes on in USA.
Idaho horse showing does some fantastic work with rescues who can hardly walk.

All the parade horses have pampered lives and are beautifully cared for. It's not as if they are ever going to have to go off to war and drag gun carriages through knee deep mud to the trenches. 🙄

What is the point of your comment? Because other horses have it worse this is ok? There are levels, none of it is ok.

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Arxx · 06/05/2023 13:40

I have horses too and was thinking the same 😔 The two drums on one of their backs were 50kg each. It’s a long day for that poor horse to have to carry that. I did hear this morning that they were at least getting a break while the ceremony took place and riders would dismount but so many of them look absolutely terrified

ChannelyourinnerElsa · 06/05/2023 13:44

tenbob · 06/05/2023 13:36

Do you think the Household Cavalry is calling in a farrier every few weeks?! 😂

They have their own farriers, it’s one of the roles in the regiment. They aren’t paying per set!

https://www.forces.net/animals/if-shoe-fits-how-army-farriers-keep-household-cavalry-horses-fit-and-healthy#:~:text=A%20small%20team%20of%20Household%20Cavalry%20farriers%20is%20responsible%20for,years%20(Picture%3A%20MOD).

I came on to say this, I’m glad you have replied.

My farrier is a retired cavalry farrier, who is beautifully skilled and certainly didn’t charge standard freelance prices per horse at the HC!!

ShamedBySiri · 06/05/2023 13:44

If people didn't ride and enjoy hose sports then there'd just be a few horses left in zoos.
Or being neglected left unshod and uncared for in a field somewhere.

You are ridiculously unreasonable.
Yes, you ABVU

The horses are wonderfully cared for and having a great day.

ShamedBySiri · 06/05/2023 13:46

Of course the horses aren't terrified! 😂😂😂

They undergo all sorts of crowd training so that they are able to do their job. 🙄

WildFlowerBees · 06/05/2023 13:49

ShamedBySiri · 06/05/2023 13:44

If people didn't ride and enjoy hose sports then there'd just be a few horses left in zoos.
Or being neglected left unshod and uncared for in a field somewhere.

You are ridiculously unreasonable.
Yes, you ABVU

The horses are wonderfully cared for and having a great day.

You are clueless, in fact I'd go so far as to say dangerously ignorant.

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