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Covid - isolation now

116 replies

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 11:45

Without looking it up, what do you think the guidance is presently if you test positive in England (not sure if same for rest of UK)?

My daughter tested positive yesterday and I was surprised by the guidance and I don’t know if was being unreasonable to be surprised.

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19lottie82 · 03/05/2023 11:47

The guidance advises you to isolate but it’s not a legal requirement

Lcb123 · 03/05/2023 11:48

No idea but I hope to just get on with your life. I don’t know anyone who stills tests

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 11:49

19lottie82 · 03/05/2023 11:47

The guidance advises you to isolate but it’s not a legal requirement

Yes, that’s correct.

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Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 11:51

Lcb123 · 03/05/2023 11:48

No idea but I hope to just get on with your life. I don’t know anyone who stills tests

I’d rather you didn’t get on with my life, but you are free to get on with your own! I’m always surprised by that comment “I don’t know anyone that still tests” - like it’s a negative thing to test, a weakness almost!

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Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 11:53

19lottie82 · 03/05/2023 11:47

The guidance advises you to isolate but it’s not a legal requirement

I didn’t mean to post just that - it cut off what I did type.

Yes. That is correct. However schools can still send pupils home it would seem. So guidance or law, they can’t go into school.

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Clickncollect · 03/05/2023 11:53

I tested positive yesterday and was looking up the guidance. I had a few tests left in the house and am not feeling great and lo and behold, covid!
I plan to just isolate and work from home if I don’t feel too bad. We have a garden for fresh air if needed. Son will go to school as normal and DH works from home anyway.
Hope your DD gets well soon OP

Swansandcustard · 03/05/2023 11:54

I just tested positive this morning. We are pretty sure DH had it over the last week or so but he refused to test. I was awake all night feeling crap so texted this morning. V fast and dark pos. Just feels like a rotten cold so far.

Gizlotsmum · 03/05/2023 11:56

We have just had a week of being at home due to covid. We didn’t need to isolate but both our work places prefer we do and son was off school. Daughter was in as negative. Don’t routinely test but tested as due in work and felt rough

Curtains70 · 03/05/2023 12:01

No idea, no idea where to even get a test. If I'm poorly I stay home if I'm not then I don't

AnObserverInThisDarkWorld · 03/05/2023 12:01

Guidance is isolate if possible

I was feeling rotten in Feb, decided to test and it was possitive.

Informed work, I wouldn't be going in that day regardless as I was so unwell. They said to take a few days off. Tested each day and after 3 I was negative, I felt much better and back out and about.

Places can do what feels best for them. Just like if you were ill in any way tbh

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 12:02

Clickncollect · 03/05/2023 11:53

I tested positive yesterday and was looking up the guidance. I had a few tests left in the house and am not feeling great and lo and behold, covid!
I plan to just isolate and work from home if I don’t feel too bad. We have a garden for fresh air if needed. Son will go to school as normal and DH works from home anyway.
Hope your DD gets well soon OP

Ah, another tester!

The guidance I found from March of this year is for children to isolate for 3 days and adults for 5 days (educational settings).

As I said I was surprised as I thought it was “carry on as normal unless you feel unwell and need to rest”.

Spoken to school to check and they confirm they expect all pupils who test positive to remain at home for there days starting the day after the positive test.

https://educationhub.blog.gov.uk/2023/03/23/what-are-the-latest-rules-around-covid-19-in-schools-colleges-nurseries-and-other-education-settings/

What are the latest rules around COVID-19 in schools, colleges, nurseries and other education settings? - The Education Hub

The Education Hub is a site for parents, pupils, education professionals and the media that captures all you need to know about the education system. You’ll find accessible, straightforward information on popular topics, Q&As, interviews, case studies,...

https://educationhub.blog.gov.uk/2023/03/23/what-are-the-latest-rules-around-covid-19-in-schools-colleges-nurseries-and-other-education-settings/

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eatdrinkandbemerry · 03/05/2023 12:03

My youngest tested positive today she's been told by school to return when she feels better.
We still test as my mum is very vulnerable and on 24:7 oxygen

Hbh17 · 03/05/2023 12:03

Stop testing and stop isolating. Your child needs to get on with her life, as do we all. This is 2023, not 2020.

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 12:04

Hbh17 · 03/05/2023 12:03

Stop testing and stop isolating. Your child needs to get on with her life, as do we all. This is 2023, not 2020.

Thanks for the unsolicited advice!

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Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 12:05

eatdrinkandbemerry · 03/05/2023 12:03

My youngest tested positive today she's been told by school to return when she feels better.
We still test as my mum is very vulnerable and on 24:7 oxygen

And this is exactly why people who say “don’t test” need to see both sides. None of them know the reason why we test!

Hope your daughter doesn’t feel too unwell.

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Swansandcustard · 03/05/2023 12:06

@Hbh17 thanks, I’m clinically vulnerable so need the test to access the anti virals, cheers anyway.

Curtains70 · 03/05/2023 12:11

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 12:05

And this is exactly why people who say “don’t test” need to see both sides. None of them know the reason why we test!

Hope your daughter doesn’t feel too unwell.

I'm not here for an argument, just a genuine question.

Surely regardless of testing negative or positive you would stay away from vulnerable people anyway if you were ill?

I totally understand testing in some circumstances, like the pp who said they need to in order to access medication.

In most circumstances though I do struggle to see the point, especially if you have symptoms. You already know you're ill and contagious with something even if its not Covid.

GoldenAye · 03/05/2023 12:26

Hbh17 · 03/05/2023 12:03

Stop testing and stop isolating. Your child needs to get on with her life, as do we all. This is 2023, not 2020.

Ironically, by not testing and not isolating, the virus can then happily do what a virus does: be passed on to other people, who also would like to get on with life but catching a nasty virus hampers that, doesn't it?

Lcb123 · 03/05/2023 12:29

Explainitplease · 03/05/2023 11:51

I’d rather you didn’t get on with my life, but you are free to get on with your own! I’m always surprised by that comment “I don’t know anyone that still tests” - like it’s a negative thing to test, a weakness almost!

It’s not a weakness but I cannot see the point. Id like to enjoy my life

Mistlewoeandwhine · 03/05/2023 12:30

You are still at risk of long covid every time you catch it. I know 5 people who have suffered greatly with long covid. Why wouldn’t you just stay in for a few days for the benefit of everyone? I was getting income insurance today and was interested that they asked about long covid as part of the health check (and that meant taking a month or longer to recover).

tommika · 03/05/2023 12:32

The government guidance has gone to advising isolation but not as a legal requirement - therefore an individual would not face a fine for going outside, the government isn’t paying for preventing people from working

Common sense is to not spread infections, and schools, workplaces etc should have their own policies.
A school has a duty of care over the rest of the pupils and staff - so would send children home
An employer doesn’t want an infection to spread across everyone and to end up shut down, so should treat COVID like any other illness and sickness absence.

Each circumstance will vary, so if a person has had an infection, but isn’t bad or is getting better and drives to a workplace where they don’t interact with others then they will be able to work
If they commute by train to an open plan office then they are at a greater risk of spreading infections

SirVixofVixHall · 03/05/2023 12:33

I am amazed that people don’t test. We test as a family if any of us are unwell, we tested dd daily when she was a close contact of someone with Covid. I know of someone now dying of heart failure due to Covid, I really not want to be responsible for spreading it.

user1497207191 · 03/05/2023 12:38

I'd like to think common sense would dictate that you wouldn't go around risking spreading it to others, so if you really have to go out, then stay away from crowded/indoor places, stay away from potentially vulnerable people and wear a mask indoors. It may not affect you, but it could affect others, even if it just means other people have to stay off work if they feel unwell and lose pay due to it. Surely it's just common sense and not being selfish to avoid spreading it as much as you can.

user1496146479 · 03/05/2023 12:39

@SirVixofVixHall god it wasn't even daily testing for close contacts at the peak!
Poor DD!

Throwawayme · 03/05/2023 12:40

Curtains70 · 03/05/2023 12:01

No idea, no idea where to even get a test. If I'm poorly I stay home if I'm not then I don't

The pharmacy, shops like savers or semi chem, all supermarkets.