I’m divorcing my husband. Therapy helped me open up about his abuse, including sexual. He told me once his therapist said she’s picked up autism and two sides to personality, and some “other home truths” he never shared with me. He then conveniently forgets or denies this. I suspect he’s an autistic, sociopathic narcissist- lots of gaslighting, minimising, belittling, disrespect, lack of empathy. He’s a headteacher. He’s got a new partner and he told me she she’s starting to do things which he disapproves of. It’s really triggered me. I got him away from us but I’m concerned now he’s going to do the same. The slow erosion of self. Don’t know whether the right thing to do would be to report him to the police? I don’t really want to go though it all- I’d have a compelling case (therapy, medial records) but I don’t want him to do to someone else what he did to me either. We’ve got children. He’s very strange and scary and also charming and intelligent. WWYD?