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Thinning hair making me so sad

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JKDcot · 30/04/2023 21:22

I know it’s a vain topic but I’m so sad about it and it’s making me nervous and embarrassed to socialise.

i have always had thin hair but recently (just turned 41) it’s just breaking and snapping at about 2 inches so it’s just a frizzy broken mess. I don’t think I’ve changed anything, not coloured it or used straighteners. It’s just snapping and breaking?

any ideas or any suggestions welcome please

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Squirrelsnut · 30/04/2023 21:28

There's loads of help these days for hair problems. Could you be in peri? It might be hormonal.
What's your diet like? Enough iron? Perhaps consider a good hair supplement like Imedeen.
Could you afford a trichologist consultation?
In the meantime I'd ensure your diet is really nutritious and treat your hair very gently. Maybe co-wash instead of shampoo. No heat.
There's interesting research on both rosemary and peppermint essential oils and hair re-growth.

GaslitlikeaVictorianparlour · 30/04/2023 21:37

My hair drops out after I have covid, like I stand up after putting my head down and I leave the shape of my head behind in hair.
I found Viviscal vitamin supplement to be very effective but they were expensive so I tried Boots Hair, Skin and Nails vitamins and not only were they cheaper, they worked better. When my hair is particularly bad I use Diaboost, which you rub into the scalp and it thickens the diameter of the hair shaft. Again its expensive but I've found if I use it in conjunction with the vitamins I don't need it often of for long.
Best of luck, its horrible but something will work for you.

JKDcot · 30/04/2023 21:44

Thank you so much for your kind advice. I had an awful stomach bug / bad gut issues from an infection a few months ago and I wondered if that caused an imbalance somehow.

I will try the vitamins and might see if I can get blood test for trichologist appointment

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WelcomeEverythingIsFine · 30/04/2023 21:53

I take biotin to promote hair growth and it definitely works

RoseRobot · 30/04/2023 21:58

My hair got thin at that age. I started taking loads of supplements - Vit D spray, B6, iron, magnesium and L-Tyrosine and my hair has become much thicker and faster growing. The supplements are quite expensive but worth it imo. I know with a good diet we shouldn't need them, but some peole have poor absorption and I do find it makes a difference.

Elvive Fibrology shampoo helps a bit too.

Stoodley · 30/04/2023 22:01

Have you had covid? I had covid in June last year, my hair started stopping off in the autumn. It was already thinner from the menopause and I was distraught. I went to a hair loss specialist after the GP couldn’t see anything in my bloods that might have triggered it. The specialist said it didn’t look hormonal to her and she’s seeing a lot of hair loss due to covid. It’s the high temperatures according to her.

itwasntmetho · 30/04/2023 23:19

I’m interested in that diaboost product, I’m having a break from extensions for a while and id love something for a temporary thickener when I’m wearing my hair down or going out, is it supposed to be used as a growth thing or can it temporarily thicken out?

GaslitlikeaVictorianparlour · 01/05/2023 08:16

There's a lot of claims but for me it temporarily thickens the hair.when I use it. I use it until the vitamins kick in and hair fall slows down.

I second Elvive Fibrology, not life changing but it certainly helps.

LittleRedYarny · 01/05/2023 08:20

I have Androgenic Allopecia so I understand your feelings OP.

I second taking a good supplement and I also swear by Michael Van Clarke products - especially the 3 more inches Ultra LifeSaver pre wash treatment. I put it on at night and wrap my hair in a bonnet and it just makes the hair I do have so lovely and shiny and soft.

BMrs · 01/05/2023 08:33

Get a blood test OP. I saw a private dermatologist and she was old me to get a blood test with GP to check ferritin levels. Ferritin needs to be atleast 70 to maintain healthy hair, mine was 42. I started taking 210mg ferrous fumerate alongside high strength vit c and use men's 5% minoxidil regaine once a day and seen vast improvement.

It's worth saying GO said ferritin Levels were fine but I had to explain what derm said and they agreed to go with it as derm is an expert in this area. I bought own supplements and minxoxidil and GP agreed to monitor through blood tests.

Ferritin now up to 67 and got lots of hair regrowth all over my head!

user1471523870 · 01/05/2023 19:15

I also second getting your ferritin level tested. Mine, even if within normal range, were lower than 70 and I have been recommended iron supplements.
The GP said not to expect any results earlier than 3 month. She was right and six months on I have loooots of new hair!
I am also:

  • using Kerastase Genesis serum every night (honestly, the only problem that almost immediately stopped my hair loss significantly)
  • double cleans my scalp when shampooing to remove any build up and keep the follicles clean
manontroppo · 01/05/2023 19:46

Rogaine mousse makes a big difference for me, even if it is pricey. I would also consider oral rogaine from a dermatologist.

Xrays · 01/05/2023 19:51

Could be peri menopause related. My hair was the same around the same age and stopped falling out once I started HRT.

JKDcot · 01/05/2023 20:52

Thank you for the advice. What other symptoms of peri menopause would I be getting at 41? It seems too young !

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