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to wonder why people are so horrible to cyclists that are not breaking the rules?

491 replies

DataColour · 30/04/2023 17:08

Even I get irate at cyclists who go through red lights, pedestrian crossings etc. But how about those that obey the road rules?

This afternoon, cycling with DS14 and DD12, one car honked us whilst overtaking. No reason, apart from the fact that they were delayed by a few seconds as they couldn't go past me within inches to spare. I was riding in the middle of the rode and DD to my left, which is perfectly within the rules.
Minutes later, a road which I always ride in the middle because, if even half a chance, vehicles will overtake without giving any space. A group of pedestrians, shout at us, saying "you should be riding behind each other, what's wrong with you?"??
WTAF???

Why are some people such twats? Luckily (or unlikely) my DCs are used to this, so weren't bothered. Some driver gave my DD (11 at the time) the finger whilst cycling to school. A grown man trying to get one up on a 11yr old girl.

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MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 08:41

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:26

Cyclists can't always just pull over in the way a mechanical vehicle can. Even a slight hill makes it hard to get going again.

If a tractor with a loaded trailer can pull over, then a cyclist can.

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:41

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:38

I do wish MN would sort their shit out about not being able to add photos which I’ve reported before. It’s really annoying

It doesn't really matter. A photo of a road that happens to be near you isn't really very helpful to the discussion.

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:41

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:00

@TooBored1 Just to help you out - cyclists do it because it saves their lives.
You seem to think all cyclists behave for the same reasons. Personally I don't plan long cycles down country roads as I know this will cause problems. I use country roads as a means to get to bigger roads.
I also pull over periodically to allow the line of traffic behind me to pass as on hilly country roads, I can't cycle at 30mph. I don't demand everyone drives slowly because it's 'my right'. In any case I find a massive queue of traffic behind me stressful because I try to be a courteous road user. I also never yell at pedestrians who are in my way because I know they take priority.

I'm not actually sure what point you are trying to make? Some posters believe cyclists ride 2 abreast just to be annoying, I'm pointing out that in many cases it's to save their lives.

For what it's worth, I cycle the way you do because I expect, like me, you are a fully functioning adult who is mindful of others around them.

I just get so sad on threads like this as it seems people on a bike just can't win - we get told off for riding on the main roads when there is a towpath; then the reverse. As I'm sure you know, there are rubbish cyclists out there, just as there are rubbish pedestrians and drivers. I just wish others wouldn't automatically hate on someone, just because they are on a bike.

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:42

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 08:41

If a tractor with a loaded trailer can pull over, then a cyclist can.

Not always, no. A tractor had an engine, a bike doesn't.

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:42

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:40

Finally.

Picture of a road. Great. Holds no relevance to my road. For one thing, yours has a centre line

lljkk · 01/05/2023 08:44

As a cyclist, pulling over on a steep hill makes total sense to me. I'm grateful for the reason to have a breather.

I have to do this sometimes in my car, too, to let others overtake. Little PuttPutt engine.

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:45

@QuintanaRoo my road

to wonder why people are so horrible to cyclists that are not breaking the rules?
Oblomov23 · 01/05/2023 08:48

Cyclists ride past my house very loudly in huge groups which gets in my nerves. But that's a separate issue.

But re op question, sometimes not all the time, but often I think they ride together when they shouldn't. Rule 66 says they can, but it also says they should be single on busy roads, when drivers wish to overtake, and to be considerate. This is my gripe. I don't think they are considerate, sometimes. I see them riding 2 abreast in what I consider inappropriate circumstances, busy roads, or we've got a long fast stretch up to a roundabout, but cars are in a long queue because they can't overtake said cyclists riding 2 abreast. I think they should go single to allow the big queue of cars to overtake, in rush hour.

I don't mind cyclists doing 2 abreast. I know the law. But sometimes it feels disrespectful to other road users.

PatchworkElmer · 01/05/2023 08:48

@Owchy fair enough, now I understand where you’re coming from. I accept that the situation is obviously quite different where you live and to clarify I don’t think that cyclists are the issue here, it’s the system itself. I don’t think my comments are preposterous based on my experience but accept that yours are different and I do see where you’re coming from.

Appreciate your response, I get fed up on here of people mocking each other with eye rolls and laughing emojis without bothering to make a reasoned argument themselves!

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:50

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:42

Picture of a road. Great. Holds no relevance to my road. For one thing, yours has a centre line

Fine, was trying to give an example. I was then about to post a photo of a narrower road without a white line and say if it was like that then they should have been in single file. Sadly the MN photo issues means it takes ten minutes to reformat the size of screenshots so I can post them.

Watsername · 01/05/2023 08:50

I cycle daily to work. I cycle on cycle lanes where they exist and am a very considerate cyclist. Last week I was hooted all the way down a short stretch of road (maybe 30m). They clearly wanted to overtake where there was no space. I pulled into the centre on the lane to make it less dangerous for all of us. I was yelled at as I turned left into a side road to get away from them. Idiots!

I am regularly cut up and overtaken, only to have to do an emergency stop as the car suddenly slows down for a speed bump.

Don’t get me started on how dangerous the change to the Highway Code is about letting cyclists cross at a junction. I don’t think anyone has read that bit …!

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:51

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 08:31

You've misunderstood - I don't have a problem with walkers. I'm simply saying that overtaking a slower walker is easier than overtaking a group of cyclists who are causing a tailback by blocking the road.
Again, I also destress by partaking in hobbies - just not in the middle of a busy road.
I know the man. He cycles then, because he wants to. Because he can. Because it's legal. Because it's his right. Like many here, he feels that his right to do so, trumps everyone else's needs.

So his sense of entitlement matches yours? You both want to be on the road at the same time. You both have a right to be there. You may feel that you have "more" right at that time but the reality is you don't.

(Tbf, he does sound a bit of a nob but I expect he is like that all the time, on it off a bike)

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:51

lljkk · 01/05/2023 08:44

As a cyclist, pulling over on a steep hill makes total sense to me. I'm grateful for the reason to have a breather.

I have to do this sometimes in my car, too, to let others overtake. Little PuttPutt engine.

God not for me 😂. I need to keep going while I have some momentum….the thought of trying do do a hill start on one of the 8% hills I was on yesterday.. no thanks. 😁🙈

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:54

pfftt · 01/05/2023 08:45

@QuintanaRoo my road

Then they were bonkers, there physically isn’t room. They must have been feeling suicidal 🤷‍♀️. In fact it’s so narrow the only thing I can think is that they stayed two abreast as they didn’t think it was safe for you to pass them even if they were single file so were keeping themselves safe. Though that doesn’t explain the hand gestures.

I might have stayed two abreast on that to prevent an unsafe overtake but I wouldn’t have been simultaneously waving the car to overtake. Seems odd. If I was by myself with a friend we’d pull in at an appropriate spot. But I know most club rides would carry on. 🤷‍♀️

Blackbyrd · 01/05/2023 08:55

Interesting how it is the cyclists on this thread using insulting and aggressive language, indicative perhaps of their attitudes on the road and towards such tedious things as pedestrian crossings.
Every weekend the main coastal A road here is full of hobby cyclists causing enormous queues of traffic to build up behind them. The air pollution they deliberately cause by choosing to cycle this route is off the scale. Bus drivers, delivery drivers, tradesmen etc are working and have no choice as to be using the road network.
Having worked in many large organisations very, very few people ever cycled to work - not having the time to make themselves look presentable by showering etc. before clocking on. So the argument that many cyclists have to be causing a nuisance is disingenuous, they are suiting themselves
As pp have said, cyclists rarely show pedestrians the courtesy they should. Shared spaces don't necessarily work and maybe cyclists should have access to certain roads where they cause a known problem restricted, at least at certain times

Spanielsarepainless · 01/05/2023 08:56

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 08:06

Reel the dogs in.

If a cyclist doesn't see the long lead you're risking injury to the cyclist and, your dogs. If the lead gets caught in the wheel your dog will be throttled

They aren't on a long lead, only the 3'3" allowed by the by-laws here attached to harnesses. Your comment just goes to prove my point that cyclists will be going too fast to observe the situation ahead and will cut through such a narrow, actually non-existent gap. If they collide with my dogs that has to be reported to the police.

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 08:58

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:51

So his sense of entitlement matches yours? You both want to be on the road at the same time. You both have a right to be there. You may feel that you have "more" right at that time but the reality is you don't.

(Tbf, he does sound a bit of a nob but I expect he is like that all the time, on it off a bike)

No, his is pure entitlement. He has alternatives.
Mine is necessity. There are no alternatives.
My needing to work isn't 'entitlement'.
My point is that just because you can, legally, hold others up, doesn't mean you should.

QuintanaRoo · 01/05/2023 08:59

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 08:58

No, his is pure entitlement. He has alternatives.
Mine is necessity. There are no alternatives.
My needing to work isn't 'entitlement'.
My point is that just because you can, legally, hold others up, doesn't mean you should.

So you’d like cycling on public roads to be made illegal?

pfftt · 01/05/2023 09:01

@QuintanaRoo yep. I drive this road virtually daily. I know it so I leave loads of time so I'm never rushed. I just personally don't cycle down roads like this for any more than absolutely necessary as the holding up traffic thing is stressful. If I am on a read like this I make sure to pull off periodically
I drive this route to get to my horse. Another entirely different thread,,,....🐎🚶🏻‍♀️🚴‍♀️🚗🛣️

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 09:02

@Spanielsarepainless

So you're literally planning on throwing your dogs under the wheels of a cyclist to prove a point?

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 09:03

Mockney, lots of people work without needing to use a car, lots of people don't own cars, your lifestyle choices are yours, your rights or needs are not greater

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 09:04

@MockneyReject

Genuine question, I'm presuming that as an adult you have some say at least over where you live and work.

So why not move/work somewhere more convenient?

MockneyReject · 01/05/2023 09:05

TooBored1 · 01/05/2023 08:42

Not always, no. A tractor had an engine, a bike doesn't.

A tractor is enormous, and it's driver needs to look out for a big enough passing space. It requires an awareness of what's going on around it, and of other road users. It loses momentum and has to start off from stationary.
OBut the alternative, is being a nuisance to others.

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 09:07

Cars are a nuisance

sylvandweller · 01/05/2023 09:10

Devoutspoken · 01/05/2023 09:07

Cars are a nuisance

They're also totally unsuitable for urban life.

So many other countries and cities have worked this out. The UK is lagging behind as usual.

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