Dh has cancer and will be having hospital treatment in a hospital 2 hours away for a few months and is likely to be during school holidays. We have a severely autistic teenager. We have been given support in the home but have been told that because of ds's needs I am expected to be there all the time which means outside school hours I cannot leave the house unless ds is with me and I cannot visit dh.
AIBU to think this is unreasonable?