Background... my friend has autism, PDD and a couple of nasty co-morbidities.. is on disability living in housing provided for her by the local council.. she can't work, is in therapy.. its a struggle for her just to function day to day.
Anyway...
She recently befriended her male neighbour and after not seeing him for a few days called the police to come check his house because she could hear his dogs barking.
They found G on his living room carpet in the stages of Kidney failure from a severe MRSA infection... her actions SAVED HIS LIFE... another few hours and he'd literally have died right there.
Over the last six weeks she's been taking care of his house (paying his rent) and his animals (to keep animal services from taking them), cycling the 10 miles to and from hospital to visit him and since he was moved into a rehab facility, taking him food and drinks because he hates the hospital food... and risking her own health because the cold weather makes her very sick.
Everything she's done for him he's been an ungrateful ass over, complained the food isn't cooked to his liking, that she doesn't go over often enough, isn't taking care of his animals properly.. basically just being a d*ck,
Because of her issues her computer is a lifeline and a necessity, its how she makes money to subsidize her living (legally) through writing and artwork.. last week her motherboard fried and she needs 120GBP to replace it.. might as well be a million.
Now.. G is fairly well off and after everything she's done she asked him if he'd loan her the money out of the couple of thousand he's given her to buy his food and his dogs, until she could pay it back next month.. his reply "Its a favour too far"
WTF?!!? She saves his life, runs all over for him despite being ill herself and he can't do this one thing for her?
I've had her on the phone to me in tears most of the afternoon and i'm so angry with this man... i can't believe he's being so damn ungrateful.
I so badly want the phone number for his rehab place to call him and tell him what i think of him and his whiny pathetic selfish excuse for an existence.